Hardin tattoos a line from Pride and Prejudice on his back
After We CollidedHardin tattoos a line from Pride and Prejudice across the top of his back as a personal declaration of commitment to Tessa. He presents the tattoo as evidence that he can remain committed without a ring or marriage proposal, but its promise of never parting carries a sharp irony: Tessa is privately planning to move to Seattle and has not told him. The scene turns a permanent inscription into both a romantic gesture and a measure of how much the couple still does not say to one another.
The choice of inscription
The tattoo begins as a casual question from Tessa about what Hardin plans to get. His answer is her name, a choice that shocks her enough to step back. Hardin explains that he sees the gesture as proof of commitment, not as a substitute marriage proposal or a demand that they marry. The distinction matters: he is trying to express permanence in a form he chooses, while Tessa is startled by the intensity of that declaration.
When the session is ready to begin, Hardin changes the proposed design from her name to a literary quotation. He instructs Drew to place it across the top of his back, make it about an inch high, and render it freehand. The chosen sentence is, “I never wish to be parted from you from this day on.” Its wording turns the tattoo into a declaration about their future together, not merely a sign of affection in the present.
The literary source gives the inscription an additional resonance within their relationship. Tessa recognizes the line as fitting, but her private response is not simple delight: because she has been withholding her plan to move to Seattle, the promise of never parting feels cruelly ironic. She suspects Hardin may know about her plans and be taunting her, though the scene establishes this as her suspicion, not as a confirmed motive on his part. The same sentence can therefore read as a sincere commitment to him and as an uncomfortable reminder of what she has not disclosed to him.
The tattoo session
Tessa asks to talk before Hardin proceeds, but he says he wants to go ahead. His teasing suggestion that he might have her name and Social Security number printed across his back prompts her to stay quiet while she tries to decide whether to tell him about Seattle. The hesitation is consequential: she knows the conversation needs to happen, yet the tattoo begins before she says what she has been holding back.
The familiar buzz of the tattoo gun marks the point at which the choice becomes physical and lasting. Black ink is laid across Hardin’s back; once the tattoo is underway, he holds out his hand for Tessa to take. The gesture brings her into the moment without resolving the conflict that preceded it. She can witness and accompany his decision even as she remains uncertain about what their shared future will be.
Afterward, Drew spreads ointment over the new tattoo while Tessa says she still cannot believe Hardin went through with it. Hardin answers that it is already done. His later perspective clarifies the difference between their reactions: he considers the tattoo not especially serious in itself, since he already has many tattoos, but says this one is for Tessa and hopes she is excited. For him, its personal purpose gives it weight even if the act of getting tattooed is familiar. Tessa’s concern, by contrast, is bound up with the commitment the words express and the move she has not yet revealed.
Commitment against unresolved conflict
The tattoo’s declaration belongs to a relationship already marked by difficulty speaking openly. In an earlier conversation, Tessa asks Hardin to tell her exactly how he feels if they are to try to move past his betrayal. Hardin turns the question back on her, saying she has also kept her feelings closed off. Tessa recognizes that her thoughts have become jumbled and admits she is confused about their relationship and his betrayal. That exchange gives the tattoo a pointed contrast: Hardin inscribes an absolute promise on his back while the two of them still struggle to articulate where they stand.
Tessa’s concerns extend beyond whether Hardin loves her. She tells him that she does not feel treated as a priority, that his friends, parties, and future seem to come first, and that she has not been allowed to make decisions about her own future. She also objects to his dismissive response when she raised marriage, explaining that she wants security someday, though not immediately, and recalling that he stayed out all night with another woman while drunk. Hardin acknowledges that she is right, even though he does not know what to do. Against this history, the tattoo asserts commitment but cannot by itself answer her complaint that their decisions do not make room for her wishes.
Their broader conflict over independence sharpens the contrast. In another argument, Hardin insists that Tessa have no contact with Zed, including messages or visits to the science building, and makes staying away a condition of his not fighting him. Tessa objects that he does not get to decide whom she may speak to. That exchange is distinct from the tattoo scene, but it shows why a declaration of commitment cannot be treated as proof that the relationship’s conflicts are settled: promises of closeness coexist with disputes over control and Tessa’s autonomy.
Meaning and consequence
The scene does not establish that Tessa accepts the tattoo as a solution to their problems, nor that the couple resolves her Seattle plans there. Instead, it leaves the declaration suspended between intention and uncertainty. Hardin’s chosen line makes his desire for lasting attachment unmistakable; Tessa’s silence makes equally clear that the future he is inscribing is not yet a future they have openly negotiated.
The tattoo’s permanence gives the moment its central tension. Hardin is willing to place a promise on his body, yet the couple’s immediate difficulty is not a lack of dramatic symbols but the absence of a candid conversation. His request for her hand offers a small gesture of closeness, while her withheld plans remain between them. The inscription consequently functions both as an intimate declaration and as an ironic counterpoint to the separation Tessa is considering: its words promise that they will not part, just as her undisclosed decision could take them in different directions.