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Children Learning to Leave

All My Puny Sorrows

This flow follows Will and Nora as they grow into independent lives while Yolandi learns that loving them cannot mean keeping them close at all times.

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A Brother in ChargeA Brother in Charge from "All My Puny Sorrows". Will Helps at Home An Adult Responsibility Yolandi asks Will to stay with Nora while she travels to Winnipeg.
Will Helps at Home An Adult Responsibility Yolandi asks Will to stay with Nora while she travels to Winnipeg. Will manages household matters and complains about the door, hair in the drain, and his sister’s curfew. Care in the Details The messages are funny and ordinary, but they show Will taking responsibility when the family is scattered. Yolandi relies on him while still worrying about both children.
The Dancer’s FutureThe Dancer’s Future from "All My Puny Sorrows". A Daughter in Motion Training and Pressure Nora dances intensely and worries that her body is not right for ballet.
A Daughter in Motion Training and Pressure Nora dances intensely and worries that her body is not right for ballet. Yolandi watches her daughter’s ambitions with pride and fear, aware that the dance world can magnify insecurity. Affection Without Control Nora shares pieces of her life while keeping others private. Yolandi cannot eliminate every risk, so their relationship develops through questions, arguments, and small moments of closeness.
A Son’s ReassuranceA Son’s Reassurance from "All My Puny Sorrows". A Role Reversed Words at the Airport Will tells Yolandi that she is a good mother and a good sister.
A Role Reversed Words at the Airport Will tells Yolandi that she is a good mother and a good sister. Yolandi cries and answers that he is a good son and a good brother. Mutual Recognition The exchange allows mother and son to recognize one another beyond the roles each has failed to perform perfectly. Their affection survives the family’s fractures and distances.
A Holiday ApartA Holiday Apart from "All My Puny Sorrows". Children Elsewhere Separate Plans Will spends Christmas with his girlfriend’s family in Mexico, while Nora is with Dan.
Children Elsewhere Separate Plans Will spends Christmas with his girlfriend’s family in Mexico, while Nora is with Dan. Yolandi experiences the first Christmas in which neither child is physically with her. Connection Remains The family’s separation is not estrangement. Messages and plans continue, giving Yolandi a chance to recognize that her children’s independent lives are part of their growth.
A House Shared AgainA House Shared Again from "All My Puny Sorrows". Three Generations Under One Roof A Changing Family Nora lives with Yolandi and Lottie in the old Toronto house.
Three Generations Under One Roof A Changing Family Nora lives with Yolandi and Lottie in the old Toronto house. She continues to have friends and a life beyond the household, but participates in family rituals when she chooses. A Mother Learns to Release Yolandi cannot hold her daughter still to protect her from every danger. She builds a home where Nora can return, even as the young woman moves toward a future of her own.
During Yolandi’s first Winnipeg trip
During Nora’s adolescence in Toronto
After Elfrieda’s death, before Will returns to New York
Christmas Day after the family’s losses
After Lottie moves to Toronto