A City Left Behind and Found Again
All My Puny SorrowsThis flow traces Yolandi’s movement between Toronto and Winnipeg as geography becomes a measure of longing, duty, and belonging.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
The Move East

A New Home for Nora
A Move to Toronto
Yolandi leaves Winnipeg for Toronto so Nora can attend a ballet school on scholarship. The move is a practical decision made for her daughter’s future, not an easy rejection of the city she leaves.
A Divided Life
Yolandi continues to feel connected to Winnipeg through family and memory. Toronto brings opportunity and isolation at once, leaving her between two places that claim different parts of her life.
The Flight West

Returning to Winnipeg
A Rapid Journey
Yolandi flies from Toronto to Winnipeg to be with Elfrieda and help coordinate care with Nic and Lottie. Each trip makes the distance between her household and her sister’s life more tangible.
A Temporary Return
The city becomes a worksite for emergencies: hospital visits, family meetings, and attempts to make plans. Yolandi belongs there through her relationships even though her daily life is elsewhere.
The River as Boundary

A City at the Water
Ice in Motion
Yolandi and Nic watch slabs of ice grind down the Assiniboine River while they talk about Elfrieda. The river’s force gives their helplessness a physical setting.
A Possible Route
Elsewhere, the river becomes a danger the canoe boys want to cross in order to get home. It is at once a barrier, a possible path, and a reminder that a journey can carry people toward safety or harm.
A Return for the Funeral

Traveling for the Dead
Family Duty
Yolandi and Lottie travel to Vancouver for Tina’s funeral, leaving Elfrieda in psychiatric care. The trip joins the practical tasks of bereavement to the fear of leaving someone else behind.
A Route Through Loss
The journey is not a clean departure from Winnipeg; phone calls and promises keep the family’s attention there. The family’s geography becomes a map of simultaneous grief.
Toronto as Refuge

Building a Place to Stay
Returning East
Yolandi returns to Toronto and eventually brings Lottie there to live with her and Nora. The city shifts from a site of isolation into the setting for a new family household.
No Escape From Memory
Toronto cannot replace Winnipeg or erase the people lost there. It offers instead a place where Yolandi can work, raise Nora, and keep her mother close.
Before the novel’s central crisis
At the start of Elfrieda’s latest hospital crisis
During spring breakup in Winnipeg
After Tina’s death
After Elfrieda’s death