Spring breakup
All My Puny SorrowsSpring breakup is the period when the ice on the Assiniboine River begins to thaw and break apart, a seasonal event that becomes a recurring measure of waiting in Winnipeg. During the crisis surrounding Elfrieda Von Riesen’s hospitalization, Yolandi Von Riesen hears the river from Lottie’s apartment and returns to it across several nights. The ice does not resolve the family’s uncertainty; its gradual movement gives that uncertainty a physical and temporal presence.
The seasonal setting
The novel defines spring breakup through the river’s changing surface: as the ice thaws, large frozen slabs crack, grind against one another, and are carried downstream by the current. This is not presented as an effortless arrival of spring. The season’s passage is difficult and noisy, and the city’s transition out of winter parallels a family life that cannot simply move into a calmer phase. The setting gives an external rhythm to the period, but no clear timetable for what will happen next.
The river is close to the family’s immediate surroundings. Lottie’s high-rise apartment overlooks the Assiniboine River, and its balcony becomes one of the places from which Yolandi keeps watch. The seasonal event is therefore both broad and intimate: a citywide change in the river is experienced from a domestic refuge where Yolandi is staying while her sister is in hospital. Her attention repeatedly shifts between the family crisis indoors and the ice moving outside.
A period of waiting
At the apartment, Yolandi tries to occupy herself while preparing to wait for news about Elfrieda. She buys Elfrieda a large, shiny purple pillow embroidered with silver dragonflies, then gathers extra provisions: beer, cigarettes, and an oversized chocolate bar. The purchases become part of a makeshift waiting arrangement. They offer small, tangible actions in a situation whose central question—the meaning of Elfrieda’s distress and what might happen next—cannot be settled by Yolandi’s efforts.
The pillow accompanies Yolandi onto the balcony, where she holds it while smoking, shivering, and trying to understand her sister’s situation. She considers photographs around Lottie’s apartment: one of her father watching Will play Little League baseball, another of Lottie with newborn Nora, and one of Elfrieda performing in Milan. The images place several generations and stages of family life beside the present vigil. In particular, the performance photograph recalls that Elfrieda had once called Yolandi from a hotel after a concert, crying about feeling lonely even while in a place she loved. The remembered call complicates any easy assumption that travel, achievement, or outward success could relieve her distress.
On another night, with a full moon above the river, Yolandi listens to the ice from the balcony and watches lights in houses across the water. She phones the hospital and waits for the switchboard to connect her to the psychiatric unit. As she paces, she makes a distant dancing couple seem to appear and disappear by looking at them in different ways. The small act of controlling what she sees offers a momentary counterpoint to the uncertainty of the call: she can alter her view of the lights, but she cannot control what news the hospital will give her.
The river as a recurring measure
The breakup of the ice returns later, in April, during a night Yolandi spends with Julie. They sit on the porch listening to the river nearby and imagine, in speculation rather than action, whether a slab of ice could be lifted clear of the pressure around it and carried back north. The image makes release imaginable without suggesting that it has occurred. Around them, the street grows quieter; lights go out, while Julie’s children sleep inside on the sofa. Their ordinary domestic stillness sits beside the river’s continuing movement.
That porch conversation also turns toward practical family obligations. Julie asks why Dan is not looking after Nora during the emergency, and Yolandi explains that he is away in Borneo with an aerialist. The exchange makes clear that the crisis around Elfrieda is unfolding amid Yolandi’s divorce and the demands of caring for her daughter. Spring breakup is not an isolated landscape motif: it recurs while family members ask who can help, who is absent, and how the people present will manage the immediate strain.
After Lottie returns from a trip, Yolandi wakes and calls the nurses’ station to confirm that Elfrieda is still in the hospital. She then lies listening to the ice breaking up and hears Lottie moving in the living room. Lottie cannot sleep because of jet lag and is playing online Scrabble with a stranger in Scotland. A Bible lies beside her computer; she says she has begun reading it after what she understands as communication from her dead sister, Mary, though Yolandi wonders whether she is also seeking hope and solace. The details place faith, play, sleeplessness, and the hospital vigil within the same unsettled night. The river’s continuing breakup is a sound beneath these different attempts to endure it.
Time without resolution
On the night before Yolandi leaves for the airport, the ice is still breaking apart beneath Lottie’s apartment. Lottie is asleep with the television on and a space heater making noise nearby; Yolandi stands beside her bed, wonders whether her mother’s sleep is peaceful, and then lies down fully clothed in the spare room because she will have to get up soon. The moment brings the seasonal motif back to a small domestic scene. The river continues changing while Yolandi’s visit nears its end, but the passage of time has not made the family’s predicament simple or complete.
Across these scenes, spring breakup connects environmental change with a form of waiting that has no dependable schedule. The ice moves downstream, night follows night, and the family makes calls, keeps watch, and finds small ways to occupy itself. The season marks motion without promising recovery or closure. Its force in the novel lies in that contrast: the river is visibly on the move, while Yolandi must remain with uncertainty about her sister and with the demands of the family life around her.

