Gender Beyond Either-Or
Along for the RideThis flow traces how Auden's assumptions about femininity are challenged by the varied, capable women she meets in Colby.
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Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
A Mother's Critique

A Mother's Critique
A strict account of gender
Victoria rejects feminine fashion and worries that pink, beauty products, and sexualized clothing reduce women to shallow roles. Auden has learned to treat such interests as intellectually inferior.
A borrowed judgment
When Auden reaches Colby, she initially uses this framework to assess Heidi and the shop. Her judgments are not entirely her own, but she has not yet noticed that.
The Shop's Pink World

The Shop's Pink World
Discomfort on display
Clementine’s is full of clothing, cosmetics, and bright colors that make Auden feel out of place. She treats the atmosphere as evidence that its employees lack serious interests.
Work complicates the picture
As Auden handles the books, she discovers a capable business behind the displays. The contradiction begins to unsettle the assumption that feminine-coded work cannot involve skill.
Maggie's Multiple Skills

Maggie's Multiple Skills
Expertise in unexpected places
Maggie offers sophisticated advice about loans and savings while helping customers choose jeans. Her knowledge comes from managing the costs of riding and equipment.
A broader possibility
Maggie explains that a person need not choose between being smart and pretty, or between girlish interests and sports. Auden recognizes that her own categories have been too small.
A Debate About Baby Clothes

A Debate About Baby Clothes
A black onesie
Auden dresses Thisbe in black and green, resisting the assumption that a girl should always wear pastels. Leah jokes about the choice, while Maggie and Esther consider it from different perspectives.
Identity in ordinary choices
The conversation makes social expectations visible without turning one outfit into a complete theory of gender. Auden is beginning to express a preference without needing everyone to agree.
A Wider Definition of Womanhood

A Wider Definition of Womanhood
Combining interests
Auden's experience of Heidi's business, Maggie's riding, and the girls' friendships makes it harder to divide women into intellectual or feminine types. Each person contains interests that do not fit a single category.
A more generous view
The summer does not ask Auden to reject Victoria's intellect or embrace every convention she once dismissed. It teaches her to let women define themselves across more than one dimension.
Before Auden arrives at Clementine’s
Auden's first work shifts
During the conversation about Esther's car
During an afternoon at Clementine’s
By Auden's first autumn at college