Lance Devore and Mattie Devore’s marriage
Bag of BonesLance Devore and Mattie Devore’s marriage joined a young couple building a family under the pressure of Max Devore’s wealth and opposition. Its defining pattern was mutual support: Lance stood by Mattie when she became pregnant, and Mattie tried to shield their marriage from the hatred between Lance and his father. The bond endured, but Lance’s death left Mattie and Kyra to face alone the consequences of the family conflict he had resisted.
Meeting and Early Circumstances
Mattie met Lance during a summer job at Warrington's, between her junior and senior years of high school. After her mother’s funeral, Mattie had gone to live with her aunt Florence, only two miles away. They managed to live together despite finding, after about three weeks, that they did not much like each other. Mattie’s family circumstances and limited support framed the start of the relationship: her older brother had offered to take her to Rhode Island, but the prospect of joining his household did not appeal, and she had recently made the junior-varsity cheerleading squad.
The relationship became a marriage when Mattie became pregnant. Her aunt refused to give permission for the marriage, so, after Mattie told her she was pregnant, Florence emancipated her. Mattie left school rather than spend six months facing other people’s scrutiny as her pregnancy became visible. Lance supported her and told her she could take an equivalency test; she later completed it. Their choices established the marriage as a practical alliance as well as a romantic commitment: the young couple made their own household despite Mattie’s age, limited resources, and lack of dependable family backing.
Max Devore’s Opposition
Lance’s father, Max Devore, opposed the marriage before it took place. In August 1994, after Lance told him they planned to marry in mid-September, Max offered Mattie $100,000 to leave and relocate without giving a forwarding address. A week later, the offer increased to $200,000. The money was explicitly meant to separate Mattie from Lance and the family. Lance was absent when Max made both telephone offers, but Mattie eventually told him. Lance reacted angrily, informed his father that the marriage would go ahead, and warned him that access to his grandchild depended on behaving properly.
About ten days before the wedding, Max’s real-estate associate Dickie Osgood visited Mattie and directed her to call a number in Delaware. The evidence identifies this as another stage in Max’s effort to get Mattie to leave, although the account here does not specify the full terms of that approach. Mattie was frightened by the scale of Max’s wealth and by the possibility that he might try to take her baby. She initially tried to keep the offers from Lance, not because she accepted them, but because she feared starting their marriage with hatred between him and his father. She also worried that, years later, Lance might blame her for having come between them. Eventually, however, she could no longer keep the matter to herself.
Life Together and Mutual Support
Mattie recalled that Lance supported her while she left school and completed the equivalency test. The couple were not wealthy: later, Mattie described herself and Kyra as being on their own and noted that her aunt worked at the Castle Rock Gore-Tex factory for about $16,000 a year. That economic vulnerability gives context to Max’s offers. Mattie was not simply refusing money without consequence; she was declining a sum that might have changed her circumstances because accepting it would have meant leaving Lance.
The marriage was also a commitment to keeping Max’s conflict with Lance from defining their family. Mattie said she did not want Lance to begin their marriage consumed by hatred for his father, even though she believed there were good reasons for that hatred. Her effort to hold back the information was an attempt to protect the relationship, but it could not make Max’s intervention disappear. When she finally told Lance about the offers, he responded by affirming that he would marry her regardless of his father’s wishes.
Widowhood and the Family Bond After Lance’s Death
Lance’s death ended the marriage but not its importance to Mattie’s decisions. At his funeral, she and Max did not suddenly reconcile or embrace; she said that Max was nevertheless decent to her, which she had not expected, and that she tried to be decent in return. She refused a stipend he offered, wary that accepting it could have legal consequences. When Max first met Kyra at the funeral, Mattie remembered his appeal not to be shut out. She answered that she would not shut him out unless he made her, while still carrying the history of his attempts to separate her from Lance.
Mattie later allowed Kyra to see her grandfather in part because he was the child’s only blood connection to her father. She wanted Kyra to have the ordinary benefit of knowing a grandparent, without being drawn into the old conflict between Max and Lance. The distinction captures the marriage’s continuing legacy: Mattie’s relationship with Max remained fraught, but her decisions about their daughter were guided by the family tie Lance had left behind.
Significance
The marriage is presented through the pressures around it rather than through a sustained account of domestic life. Its key facts are specific and consequential: Mattie became pregnant while young, Lance supported her, they married despite his father’s opposition, and Max tried to buy Mattie’s departure. Mattie’s silence and later disclosure show how she tried to preserve her marriage without pretending that the conflict did not exist.
After Lance’s death, that conflict continued in a changed form, centered on Kyra and Max’s access to her. Mattie’s willingness to permit visits did not erase the history or signify unconditional trust. It reflected her effort to preserve Kyra’s connection to her father’s family while protecting the child from the hostility that had shadowed her parents’ marriage.