A Grandfather’s Definition of God
Black Water (Joyce Carol Oates Edition)This flow follows Kelly Kelleher’s memory of Grandpa Ross and the personal definition of faith he leaves her.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
Lizzie’s Favorite

A Special Bond
A cherished name
Grandpa Ross knows Kelly Kelleher as Lizzie rather than Kelly. His affectionate attention makes their relationship feel distinct within the larger family.
A remembered presence
The intimacy of the nickname survives into adulthood. When Kelly’s mind becomes disordered, the memory of being known by him offers a stable sense of self.
The Dying Grandfather

A Final Teaching
A private confidence
As his body weakens, Grandpa Ross speaks to Kelly Kelleher with alertness and affection. He tells her that the way a person makes a life and the love put into it are God.
Faith made practical
His words replace abstract doctrine with lived care. Kelly remembers them despite her distance from conventional belief and her resistance to a distant or punitive God.
A Secular Adult

Belief Without Certainty
Doubt about doctrine
Kelly Kelleher does not believe in astrology or the Anglican God in whom she was confirmed. Her skepticism reflects an intellectual identity built against easy assurances.
An inherited warmth
Grandpa Ross’s definition remains different from formal religion. His understanding of faith as love persists even where Kelly rejects traditional religious certainty.
Grandpa Returns in Memory

A Familiar Face
Family gathered in thought
Kelly Kelleher imagines her parents and grandparents near the wreck. She realizes that Grandpa Ross is already dead and feels a measure of relief that he cannot receive the news of her death.
Love with a limit
The memory shows her trying to protect the people she loves even as she cannot protect herself. The thought of her grandfather brings tenderness and an awareness of irreversible loss.
A Last Inheritance

Love as Meaning
A life remembered
Grandpa Ross’s teaching gives meaning to the family love Kelly Kelleher recalls in her final ordeal. The idea is not a guarantee of rescue but a way to recognize what has mattered.
A severed future
Kelly dies before she can continue shaping her life. His words remain as an emotional inheritance whose value is clearest against the ending’s loss.
Kelly’s childhood
Near the end of Grandpa Ross’s life
By the summer of the accident
While Kelly is trapped in Indian Creek
Near the novel’s ending