Mike’s Bond with Laurie
Cry MachoThis thread traces Mike’s discovery of unconditional fatherhood, the loss that overwhelms him, and the memory he cannot bring himself to reclaim.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
A Longed-for Child

A Longed-for Child
Fear after loss
After earlier pregnancy losses, Mike and Donna approach another pregnancy in fearful silence.
A healthy arrival
Laurie’s birth briefly releases the couple from the feeling that their marriage is cursed.
Giving Becomes Love

Giving Becomes Love
A new kind of attachment
Mike discovers in Laurie a love unlike the bargaining and competition of his adult relationships.
A mutual bond
He delights in giving to her and realizes she is learning to comfort him in return.
The Sudden Death

The Sudden Death
A night of illness
Mike sits with feverish Laurie and begins to give her aspirin again.
An irreparable loss
She dies before he can help, leaving him unable to release his grief openly.
The Locked Room

The Locked Room
Grief withheld
Mike does not cry at the funeral and locks Laurie’s room afterward.
A marriage altered
The shared loss does not bring him and Donna closer; silence settles over their home.
The Photograph Refused

The Photograph Refused
An image returned
Mike sees a newly found photograph of Laurie in Donna’s home.
Memory at a distance
He refuses a copy because he wants the memory without having to face it directly.
Before Laurie’s birth
Laurie’s early childhood
When Laurie is nearly seven
On the day of Laurie’s funeral
During Mike’s visit to Donna after his firing