Delia Ortiz
Day of the DeadDelia Ortiz is a lawyer whose life moves between an urban education and professional career, a difficult return to the reservation, and renewed ties to the family and community she once left. Her arc is shaped especially by Gabe “Fat Crack” Ortiz, her father-in-law: she resists his intervention in her life, but later recognizes that his practical help had twice altered her course. At his funeral, she gives that history public voice, making her own complicated belonging part of the occasion.
Identity and Background
Delia grew up as an urban Indian and received an education through private schools made accessible by Ruth Waldron’s Boston connections. She was increasingly uncomfortable with the label Native American, which, to her, carried images at odds with the life and education she knew. Her unease points to a lasting tension in her identity: she belongs to a people and a community, but has also learned to see herself through institutions and assumptions shaped outside them.
When Delia was seven, her parents were having problems and her mother needed to leave for school in Tempe. Nuns at Topawa offered the family a broken-down car, and Gabe “Fat Crack” Ortiz spent the day getting it running with his tow truck. The working car enabled Delia and her mother to leave the reservation; Delia later understood that the departure made it possible for both of them to pursue an education. The episode establishes the practical form Gabe’s care often takes: he does not merely offer sympathy, but uses the tools and time available to him to make a way forward.
Career, Departure, and Return
As an adult, Delia worked as a lawyer for the Bureau of Indian Affairs in Washington, D.C. She valued her job and her life there, and had been away from the reservation for years. When Gabe approached her about returning, the offer arrived amid strain in her marriage to Philip Cachora. She suspected that the proposed position was partly a pretext for her aunt’s wish that she leave Philip and come home, and she initially refused the job outright.
Gabe’s offer was nevertheless a serious one. The current tribal attorney, Elias Segundo, was approaching retirement, and the reservation needed a successor. Gabe made the offer without first reviewing Delia’s academic record or consulting her supervisors; he trusted his judgment of her and her family. The directness that startled her also exposed the contrast between professional hiring procedures and the personal confidence on which his decision rested.
Delia did eventually return to the reservation and became its tribal attorney. By the time of Gabe’s funeral, she had been back for seven years. Her return did not erase her earlier distance or make her feel effortlessly at home. Rather, it placed her in a position where legal work, family obligations, and community life met. Even domestic tasks that seemed unrelated to her profession became part of that adjustment: before returning, she had never made tamales or tortillas, and she had resisted the suggestion that she learn, believing such skills unnecessary to her work as a lawyer.
Marriage and Family Ties
Delia’s relationship with Philip is presented at a point of trouble. In Washington, D.C., she was having difficulties with her husband, and Gabe offered the reservation job when she was unsure where to turn. Her first response was refusal, but her eventual return and work as tribal attorney mark a substantial change in the direction of her life. The evidence does not make that change a simple choice between career and marriage; it shows the job arriving within a strained personal situation and becoming one route back to a place she had long avoided.
As Gabe’s daughter-in-law, Delia also had a public history of disagreements with him. At his funeral she worried that those disagreements were known to the assembled community, and she had not planned to speak. Yet she could not accept a eulogy that, in her view, failed to honor the man the community had known. Her decision to stand up does not deny their conflict. Instead, she speaks from within it, acknowledging that a person could frustrate her and still have been essential to her life.
Speaking for Gabe “Fat Crack” Ortiz
Delia described Gabe as having saved her life twice. The first time was when his tow truck and labor made the family’s broken-down car usable, allowing her mother to pursue school and Delia to receive an education. The second came years later, when Delia was living in Washington, D.C., and struggling in her marriage: Gabe appeared with an offer of work at home. She had initially said no, but the offer endured as a possibility and eventually became the basis of her return.
Her account also changes the atmosphere of the funeral. The pastor conducting the service knew little about Gabe and repeatedly used his formal name, Gabriel Ortiz. Delia instead spoke of the man her family and community knew, connecting his practical actions to the life she had built. In this way, she both honors him and corrects the distance between an outsider’s generic account and a family member’s particular knowledge. Her speech makes gratitude compatible with candor about their disagreements.
Work, Mourning, and Change
After Gabe’s funeral and burial, the family was expected to host the customary feast at Ban Thak. Delia joined the women preparing and cleaning for the gathering. Her participation mattered partly because it contrasted with her earlier resistance to learning the work of making tortillas and tamales: the lawyer who had once regarded those tasks as irrelevant to her professional identity was now part of the family labor surrounding a major communal obligation. The change is practical rather than ceremonially announced; it appears in what she does alongside her relatives.
Delia was heavily pregnant during the funeral preparations. After the men had left and the women continued wiping down tables and sinks and sweeping, her water broke. Wanda recognized that the baby was coming, and Delia was seized by the first powerful contraction. The scene places an imminent birth directly after the work of mourning: Delia’s family role continues not only through remembrance of Gabe but through the next generation arriving. The available account ends as labor begins, so it does not establish the circumstances or outcome of the delivery.
Delia’s significance lies in the way her return remains complicated even as it becomes real. She is an educated lawyer who once saw reservation life as distant from her chosen future, a daughter-in-law who publicly disagreed with Gabe, and a family member who ultimately speaks for him and shares in the work his death leaves behind. Her story links professional authority with communal responsibility without treating either as a replacement for the other.