Twelve pitfalls to dreams
Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your WorldTwelve pitfalls to dreams is a twelve-part framework for understanding why a desired future can seem to remain in the grave even when prayer, promise, and hope have not disappeared. Using the story of Lazarus as its governing image, the framework turns apparent failure into a sequence of recognizable tests: each pitfall invites surrender, but each can also be met by persistence, faith-filled speech, obedience, and continued movement toward God.
The Lazarus Pattern
The concept is introduced through the claim that every dream carries possible pitfalls designed to keep it bound in the grave like Lazarus. Jesus Christ’s delay, return to Judea, confrontation with unbelief, and command at the tomb provide the interpretive structure. The story is therefore treated not merely as a report of a resurrection but as a map for readers whose hopes appear to be dying. The central alternative is stark: a person may give up because of the barriers or continue plowing through them until the dream is released.
The framework depends on persistence rather than on the immediate appearance of favorable circumstances. The broader argument is that God remains within reach even when an answer seems distant, and that pressing toward Him must continue until the promised manifestation arrives. Prayer is described elsewhere in the book as continual asking, seeking, and knocking; within the twelve-pitfall scheme, that persistence becomes the practical response to every force that tries to make the future look closed.
News, Timing, and Human Pressure
The first pitfall is bad news. The message that Lazarus was sick appears to establish a negative outcome, but Jesus Christ answered the situation by declaring that the sickness was not unto death but for the glory of God. The framework consequently warns against allowing an initial report to determine the final interpretation of a dream. A setback or alarming announcement may describe the present condition without defining what will happen later.
The second pitfall is wrong timing. Jesus Christ loved Martha, Mary of Bethany, and Lazarus, yet remained where He was for two days after hearing that Lazarus was sick. The delay is interpreted as obedience to God’s timing rather than indifference to the family’s distress. The reader is urged not to react from fear simply because an answer does not arrive within the expected schedule; spiritual direction and faith are placed above the pressure to force an immediate response.
The third pitfall is the influence of friends and family. The disciples offered their opinions when Jesus Christ delayed, and the framework uses this episode to show that sincere counsel can still be mistaken. Familiar people may help, but their knowledge of a situation—or of the person pursuing the dream—can become a limitation. The discussion connects this danger with the observation that Jesus Christ could not perform His greatest miracles in His hometown because excessive familiarity prevented people from recognizing His spiritual purpose.
Fear, Memory, and Unbelief
The fourth pitfall is fear and worry. The disciples remembered that Jesus Christ had previously faced hostility in Judea, where people wanted to stone Him, and they questioned the wisdom of returning. Fear is presented as an inner argument that makes a future hope seem too dangerous to embrace. Jesus Christ did not allow the earlier threat to immobilize Him or make Him alter the path He believed God had given Him.
The fifth pitfall is the past. The question about going to Judea again represents the temptation to let an earlier attack govern a future decision. The framework insists that past failure, fear, or disappointment must not become a permanent prediction. Jesus Christ’s return to the place of danger demonstrates that a previous experience need not cancel a later miracle; the past must be faced without allowing it to dictate the future.
The sixth pitfall is unbelief. Thomas interpreted the journey as a likely path toward death, saying, "Let us also go, that we may die with him". His response is used as an example of how unbelief removes vision and replaces the promise with impossibility. The framework compares this condition with the Israelites’ failure to enter the Promised Land: when people cannot imagine the promise, they may treat obedience itself as evidence that they are being led toward defeat.
The seventh pitfall is an impossible situation. Lazarus had been in the grave for four days when Jesus Christ arrived, beyond the period in which Jewish custom was understood to leave any realistic hope of restoration. The delay is interpreted as deliberate: the greater the apparent impossibility, the clearer the demonstration of power over death. Lazarus’s return therefore becomes evidence within the book’s theology that dead dreams can live again even when circumstances offer little or no visible possibility.
Apathy, Blame, and Disordered Emotion
The eighth pitfall is apathy. Martha went out to meet Jesus Christ, while Mary of Bethany remained in the house. Her stillness is read as the posture of someone who has stopped pursuing hope because the Lord seemed to have ignored her request. The framework contrasts remaining inside a defeated “house mentality” with actively seeking God where He can be found. Confusion about what is happening may be real, but it must not become a reason to stop caring or stop moving.
The ninth pitfall is excuses and blame. Mary told Jesus Christ that Lazarus would not have died if He had been present. Her accusation is treated as an attempt to assign responsibility for the loss to the person who had not arrived soon enough. The warning extends beyond Mary’s grief: when desires fail, it is easy to point toward another person or circumstance and use blame to justify one’s own retreat. Persistence requires continuing to believe that help remains possible rather than making disappointment a final verdict.
The tenth pitfall is wrong emotion. The mourning around Lazarus’s tomb is acknowledged as understandable, but prolonged despair is presented as spiritually unproductive. Crying is not itself condemned; the danger lies in remaining so long in grief that emotion develops into unbelief and opens a person to a continuing spirit of grief. The framework calls for emotions to be brought into alignment with God’s purposes so that sorrow does not preserve a dream’s burial after the possibility of renewal has appeared.
Tradition, Obstacles, and Release
The eleventh pitfall is religion and tradition. Those gathered at Lazarus’s tomb questioned why Jesus Christ, who had opened the eyes of the blind, had not prevented Lazarus’s death. Their reasoning is interpreted as an accusation shaped by assumptions about what supernatural power can or cannot do. In this account, religious reasoning reduces the extraordinary to an ordinary explanation and places inherited expectation above present faith, thereby talking people out of the possibility that their dream can come alive.
The twelfth pitfall is obstacles and resistance. Jesus Christ’s command, "Take away the stone", makes the tomb’s physical barrier a picture of the resistance standing between Mary, Martha, and the hoped-for restoration. The stone does not remove itself simply because a promise exists; persistence must confront the obstruction. Dreams can remain buried when people shift their attention elsewhere rather than dealing with the practical or spiritual resistance directly in front of them.
The twelve pitfalls are presented as a coordinated strategy that confines dreams in a cave with no visible sign of life. Jesus Christ overcomes the barriers in sequence, positioning the reader to recognize them before surrendering to them. The framework’s purpose is therefore diagnostic as well as exhortative: naming the trap is part of refusing its power.
From Resurrection to a New Life
The concept does not end when the dream leaves the grave. Lazarus came out alive but still bound hand and foot and with his face covered by graveclothes. Jesus Christ’s command to loose him and let him go establishes a second stage of restoration: resurrection must be followed by release. A recovered dream can remain limited if old habits, fears, and thought patterns continue to govern it.
The bound hands represent restrictions on serving, laboring, and carrying out ministry. Bound feet represent habits and sins from the past that cause repeated falls and prevent forward movement. The bound face represents limitations affecting vision, speech, hearing, and thought: eyes without direction, a mouth unable to declare the Word of the Lord, ears tuned only to negative messages, and a mind still organized around former failures and mistakes.
This image gives the twelve pitfalls a lasting consequence. The goal is not merely to survive bad news, delay, fear, or resistance until a breakthrough occurs, but to walk beyond the tomb afterward. Once a dream is revived, its destiny has only begun. The person who remains dressed in the mental clothing of the grave may celebrate the breakthrough while still being unable to live freely within it; the final demand is to release the renewed future from the patterns that once held it captive.