Readify

Hopelessness

Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your World

Hopelessness is the inward conclusion that no remedy remains and no meaningful change is possible. In the book, it appears wherever circumstances seem to move only from bad to worse: an incurable illness, a four-day death, an apparently impossible promise, or a crisis in which human resources have been exhausted. Yet the narrative repeatedly turns that conclusion into a test of response. Hopelessness may describe the visible situation, but it does not have the final authority; persistence keeps the story open to intervention by God.

How Hopelessness Takes Shape

Hopelessness is closely associated with the collapse of expectation. The account of Lazarus establishes the strongest form of this condition: he had been dead for four days, a period that Jewish custom regarded as beyond any possible hope of restoration. The delay therefore makes the situation appear closed rather than merely difficult. Jesus’s arrival after that interval presents the crisis as an impossible situation, while the raising of Lazarus demonstrates, within the book’s theological framework, that even death cannot establish an absolute boundary for God’s power. The scene becomes a pattern for “dead dreams,” which may seem irretrievable before they are revived.

The book also locates hopelessness in the mind’s interpretation of repeated failure. The woman with the issue of blood had suffered for twelve years, spent all that she had on physicians, and was “nothing bettered, but rather grew worse.” Her condition was not a single setback but a long descent in which time, expense, and unsuccessful treatment could have taught her to accept illness as permanent. Hopelessness would have made another attempt appear irrational. Instead, she treated reports about Jesus as grounds for renewed pursuit and refused to let previous failures define the next possibility.

A further form of hopelessness arises when people surrender agency to surrounding conditions. The woman could have withdrawn because she was unclean, isolated because no one accompanied her, or remained at home because the crowd was too large and the risk of injury was real. Pain and social judgment gave her plausible reasons to stop. The book emphasizes that she moved past self-pity, fear, discouragement, and the temptation to interpret her present condition as her fixed future. Her desperation did not erase the obstacles; it made continued movement through them decisive.

Impossible Situations and Reversal

The Lazarus narrative gives hopelessness its clearest reversal. The four-day grave represents a condition in which ordinary calculations offer no remaining path forward. Jesus’s deliberate delay is interpreted as a revelation of power over death and as a sign pointing toward His own resurrection. The resulting reversal is therefore more than a recovery from illness: it changes the meaning of the preceding impossibility. What looked like proof that hope had ended becomes the circumstance through which a greater form of hope is disclosed.

This pattern also governs the book’s account of a family medical crisis. During a family camping trip on July 4, the narrator’s wife’s father developed a fever of 104 degrees. Antibiotics temporarily controlled it for three weeks, but the cause remained undiagnosed. By the first week of December, the fever returned with greater force; he became faint and saw spots, and an ambulance was called. Exploratory surgery revealed diverticulitis and a ruptured bowel, while months of undetected infection had driven him into septic shock. The danger was so immediate that, had he simply returned to bed, he might have died before his mother-in-law came home from work.

The crisis intensified after surgery. His body swelled to three times its normal size, his temperature reached 105 degrees, and nineteen intravenous bags supplied medicines, fluids, blood, and food. Eight physicians treated him while his liver, kidneys, and lungs began shutting down. Dialysis, a ventilator, and a medical coma marked the crisis as multiple organ and renal failure rather than a routine illness. The surgeon estimated less than a 50 percent chance of survival, but the family entered what the narrator calls a spiritual battle and prayed around the clock. The family’s continued prayer is presented as a refusal to let the medical prognosis become the final interpretation of the situation.

Persistence Against Deterioration

The woman with the issue of blood embodies the book’s practical answer to hopelessness: when circumstances deteriorate, attention must be redirected toward Jesus rather than toward the apparent inevitability of decline. Her physicians could practice medicine, but the narrative distinguishes medical effort from the divine power required for healing. After every ordinary avenue had failed, her decisive action was to reach toward Jesus and touch His garment. The gesture is small in physical form but immense in narrative meaning, because it converts a closed medical history into an active pursuit of healing.

Her persistence is also verbal and interpretive. Before she reached Jesus, she said within herself, “if I may but touch his garment, I shall be whole.” The book treats these words as part of the movement toward healing: she did not allow the language of permanent sickness, social exclusion, or accumulated disappointment to become the prophecy of her life. Her speech expressed a future that contradicted the evidence immediately around her. Hope therefore functions not as optimism detached from suffering but as a deliberate refusal to grant suffering the last word.

The same principle appears in the narrator’s examples of collective prayer. After 9/11, churches and prayer meetings filled as people sought God amid national confusion, but that renewed dependence lasted only a short time. The book identifies this temporary return as dangerous because it makes tragedy the motive for prayer rather than fellowship with God. A similar interpretation is applied to military prayer: early prayer coverage accompanied the seizure of Baghdad after twenty-one days, while later violence and soldiers’ deaths are linked, in the narrator’s belief, to the decline of sustained prayer. In this framework, hopelessness is not only an individual emotion; it can arise when a community abandons the practice that it previously regarded as necessary.

Prayer, Risk, and Renewed Possibility

The book’s storm accounts extend the argument from illness and death to public danger. In 2004, while ministering at a conference in Jacksonville, Florida, the narrator prophesied two back-to-back hurricanes and said that prayer could keep them away. People prayed the first time, yet the hurricanes still came, showing that an initial appeal did not produce the expected result. The failure could have encouraged resignation. Instead, the following year, when the narrator named a storm expected to rise from the Atlantic Ocean before another conference, hundreds prayed with greater fervency and determination; that storm did not hit them.

The next year’s account broadens the claimed response. After record hurricane seasons, people collectively and individually prayed and declared peace over the storms. The narrator says that in 2006 no major hurricane struck the United States, while some storms attempted to develop but did not succeed. Whether the reader accepts the stated spiritual causation or not, the narrative structure is clear: an apparent failure is not used to justify abandoning prayer. It becomes an argument for deeper persistence, and the contrast between the first and later attempts is used to stress determination rather than passive disappointment.

A similar tension appears in two tornado episodes at the narrator’s home. In the first, sirens sounded, the wind intensified, and a tornado reportedly less than a mile away moved toward the house. The narrator and his wife spoke to it, but a large branch struck the house and they ran to the basement. The tornado passed, and they later laughed at their reaction. In another storm, they told nearby doctors that Jesus would calm the tornado and spoke to the forming cloud before taking shelter. That tornado rose back into the sky and the storm dissipated. The two episodes prevent the testimony from being presented as effortless mastery: one attempt seemed to fail, yet the failure did not end the practice of speaking with authority.

Hopelessness thus functions as a recurring threshold rather than a settled ending. It is produced by delay, worsening symptoms, depleted resources, social isolation, frightening statistics, failed prayer, and circumstances that appear to have crossed beyond reversal. The book’s answer is not denial of those facts. It is the insistence that facts such as four days in the grave, twelve years of illness, less than a 50 percent survival estimate, or a storm already approaching do not by themselves determine the conclusion. Persistent prayer and continued movement toward God keep the narrative from closing at the moment when ordinary hope has run out.

Related StoryFlow