Lazarus
Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your WorldLazarus is the sick friend whose death becomes the decisive setting for the book’s teaching about persistence, delayed answers, and the resurrection of dead dreams. Loved by Jesus Christ and closely connected with Mary of Bethany and Martha, he is not presented merely as a passive recipient of a miracle. His body, sealed in a tomb for four days, becomes the visible measure of a situation that seems beyond repair; his return from the grave then demonstrates that delay has not cancelled divine purpose and that a seemingly finished story can still be reopened.
Identity and Place in the Story
Lazarus lived in Bethany, the village associated with Mary of Bethany and Martha. The sisters sent Jesus a message when Lazarus became ill, describing him as the one Jesus loved. The account therefore establishes a relationship of affection before introducing the crisis: Lazarus is not a stranger whose need happens to cross Jesus’ path, but a dear friend whose condition creates an apparent conflict between love and delay.
The book repeatedly uses Lazarus as a representative figure. His story stands for a person, hope, prayer, or future that appears to have died while the expected answer has not arrived. In this interpretation, “Lazarus situations” include circumstances in which a dream seems to be buried, a request appears ignored, or the passage of time makes recovery look impossible. Lazarus’s significance lies in the way his particular death is expanded into a pattern for understanding faith under pressure.
Illness, Delay, and Death
When Jesus heard that Lazarus was sick, He did not immediately go to Bethany. He stayed two more days where He was, even though Lazarus was His friend and the message carried an urgent need. The delay disturbed the expectations of Mary of Bethany, Martha, and the disciples. From their perspective, Jesus had healed others and could have arrived in time to prevent the death; His failure to appear promptly seemed like disregard for their desperate appeal.
By the time Jesus arrived, Lazarus had been dead for four days. Martha confronted Him by saying that Lazarus would not have died if He had been present, and Mary later expressed the same grievance. Their repeated words reveal a shared interpretation of the event: Jesus had been asked to intervene, had not come when needed, and had therefore allowed their hope to collapse. Martha’s response to the removal of the tomb’s stone shows that the physical condition of the body had become part of the objection. After four days, the grave represented not only death but finality, decay, and the apparent impossibility of reversal.
The narrative contrasts that human reading with Jesus’ purpose. The delay is not treated as evidence that He had ceased to care or that the request had been forgotten. Instead, the situation is said to lead to the glorification of God. Mary and Martha see a dead dream; Jesus sees a dead dream about to be resurrected. Their offense narrows their vision at the very moment when the stone is being moved and the miracle is approaching.
Resurrection and the Three Commands
At Lazarus’s grave, Jesus gives three commands that the book presents as a pattern for refusing to abandon faith in a seemingly lost future: “Take away the stone,” “Lazarus, come forth,” and “Loose him and let him go.” The commands distinguish human participation from divine action. Others are expected to remove the stone, while Jesus calls Lazarus out of the grave and then orders that the restraints be removed.
The first command makes Lazarus’s resurrection a lesson in responsibility as well as expectation. The stone is an obstacle that people must address rather than simply waiting for God to remove every barrier. In the book’s application, removing the stone means confronting impediments and undertaking unfamiliar actions so that the way into new life can be opened. Lazarus remains the object of the command, but the surrounding people must act before his emergence can be witnessed.
The second command directly summons Lazarus from death. His return is not described as an indistinct recovery but as a response to Jesus’ authoritative call. The phrase “Lazarus, come forth” becomes a model for speaking toward what has been buried and calling a dream out of its grave. The book stresses that the answer may not appear immediately, yet delay does not prove that the command has failed.
The third command completes the movement from revival to freedom. Lazarus is not only raised; he must also be loosed. The graveclothes mark the difference between being alive and being able to move freely in renewed life. Through this sequence, Lazarus’s story acquires a practical structure: obstacles are removed, life is summoned, and lingering bonds are taken away.
Effects on the Community
Lazarus’s resurrection affects more than Lazarus himself or his immediate family. The miracle touches Mary of Bethany and Martha, who had expected death to end their hope, and it creates a public display of God’s power. The book emphasizes that the raising of one dead man causes many people to believe in Jesus. Lazarus therefore becomes a living sign whose restored existence carries consequences beyond the private grief of Bethany.
The miracle also provokes opposition. The chief priests consult about putting Lazarus to death because many people are turning away and believing in Jesus on account of what happened to him. His restored life consequently becomes both testimony and danger: the same public visibility that makes him evidence of Jesus’ power also makes him a target for those threatened by that testimony. Lazarus’s body, once hidden behind a stone, becomes the ground of a wider conflict over belief and authority.
Lazarus as a Model of Dead Dreams
The book’s later personal testimony turns Lazarus into an interpretive lens for a family medical crisis. A father suffers an undiagnosed fever, then a ruptured bowel, septic shock, a medical coma, swelling to three times his normal size, a fever of 105 degrees, and multiple organ and renal failure. Nineteen intravenous bags hang above him, while eight physicians treat him with dialysis and a ventilator. The family’s dream of his continued life seems to be entering a tomb of its own.
The crisis nevertheless follows the Lazarus pattern of delay and persistent hope. Doctors initially give him less than a 50 percent chance of survival, and days pass with little visible change. After two weeks he is not declared better, but he is still alive, which the family interprets as evidence that an unseen recovery may already be developing. They pray around the clock, hold on to visions, dreams, and Scripture, and understand these signs as the gradual rolling away of their stone.
Brenda Kunneman prays that doctors will call her father a “miracle man,” and the medical staff soon begin using that description. His medicines are reduced, the machines are removed, and he wakes. A nurse who had not seen him for some time reacts with disbelief, while the surgeon attributes the outcome to faith and prayer rather than to the physicians’ work. The account explicitly connects this recovery with Lazarus: as Lazarus emerges from a four-day grave, the family’s apparently dying dream comes back to life.
Lazarus thus functions as both character and governing metaphor. His illness establishes the crisis, Jesus’ delay intensifies it, the tomb makes its apparent finality concrete, and the command to come forth reverses the meaning of death. The story’s lasting claim is not that delay is empty, but that what appears abandoned may be moving toward revelation; Lazarus’s resurrection gives that claim a body, a voice, and consequences for an entire community.


