Spiritual Infancy
Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your WorldSpiritual Infancy describes an immature condition in which believers remain dependent on others to meet their spiritual needs and do not learn to initiate sustained contact with God. The book contrasts this condition with mature faith: immature believers wait to be touched, while mature believers pursue God’s power even when no immediate answer or sensation appears.
Definition and Biblical Image
Spiritual Infancy is interpreted through the account of the two females in Luke 8: the woman with the issue of blood, who had suffered for twelve years, and the twelve-year-old girl who was dying. The shared number twelve is presented as a kingdom sign connected with the church and the twelve apostles. Within that parallel, the woman represents believers who have had many years in the body of Christ but remain burdened by recurring spiritual issues, while the child represents believers who never reach maturity and die before entering their full destiny with God.
The distinction is not simply between old and young in age. The woman’s maturity is shown by action: she initiates contact with Jesus and receives healing. The girl, by contrast, is still a child and needs Jesus to come to her and touch her. The book therefore uses physical age and bodily action as visible figures for two patterns of Christian development—one that presses toward God and one that remains dependent on ministry to supply what it cannot yet seek for itself.
Dependence and Lack of Initiative
According to the book, spiritually immature believers spend much of their Christian experience depending on everyone else to meet their needs. They wait for a pastor or another ministry figure to touch them, solve their problems, or provide the spiritual experience they believe is necessary. Because they do not initiate time with God or pursue His power, they remain unable to move beyond the same recurring hindrances.
The condition is described as more serious than temporary weakness. Some believers never become free from the same old problems, never reach a higher place in God, and eventually “die” in their Christian experience before growing into their full destiny. The image also includes those who are no longer active in the church, suggesting that spiritual infancy can become a long-term failure of development rather than a brief beginning stage.
The book does not present dependence as meaning that mature believers have no need of a church. It explicitly says that all believers need the help of a local church to remain on track with the Lord, while babies require special care. The difference lies in proportion and capacity: the infant needs ministry to survive and mature, whereas the mature believer can also take initiative and reach toward God directly.
Contrast with Mature Faith
The mature believer is defined by initiative rather than by constant spiritual sensation. Maturity does not require always feeling, seeing, or experiencing something, nor does it require having a pastor available for every need. Instead, the mature Christian initiates time with God and deliberately pursues His power in the face of difficulty.
This principle is connected to the book’s larger appeal not to leave God alone. The narrator recounts hearing a plea from God as he was leaving his prayer and study room, then returning to spend more time in prayer despite a crowded schedule and the belief that his allotted hour had ended. The episode presents fellowship with God as something that must be actively maintained rather than abandoned when the believer’s preferred schedule is complete.
Other testimonies reinforce the same contrast. During a season when prayer felt boring and God seemed absent, the narrator withdrew to a camp for three days of fasting and prayer, even bringing a sack of snacks in case the spiritual drought continued. When the deer he asked God to bring closer instead ran away, the disappointing sign did not become a basis for abandoning pursuit. In the book’s framework, maturity is tested precisely when prayer appears unproductive.
Growth Through Crisis and Persistence
The book repeatedly places spiritual development in situations where passive faith would collapse. On an interstate after a church service, the narrator encountered a man lying bleeding on the highway after being struck by a car. In another account, he urged a friend to speak to an elderly relative in a coma before the person died at four o’clock that afternoon, because the relative had not yet accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior. These scenes portray spiritual responsibility as requiring immediate action rather than helpless waiting.
A church family’s newborn girl likewise faced an incurable disease attacking her liver and blood. Her liver was failing, doctors gave her only an 11 percent chance of living, and continued prayer initially appeared to produce little change. The congregation nevertheless continued speaking God’s promises of healing until determination displaced fear and shock. The episode connects maturity with persistence in a crisis, especially when circumstances seem to announce that prayer has failed.
The same developmental pattern is drawn from Elisha’s pursuit of Elijah through Gilgal, Bethel, Jericho, and Jordan. Those four places are treated as stages of testing that built the determination required to grasp God’s power and never let it go. In this model, spiritual infancy is overcome through commitment, testing, obedience, and continued pursuit rather than through a single emotional experience.
Worship, Prayer, and Movement Toward Maturity
Worship is presented as another means by which immature bondage is confronted. Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego fell prostrate in the fiery furnace—not before the king’s statue, but before the Son of God—and were left unharmed by the flames. Paul and Silas similarly prayed and sang praises at midnight until an earthquake opened the prison doors and loosed everyone’s bands. Their worship at the darkest moment is interpreted as a cry for deliverance because it placed God above their failures and bondage.
Persistence is also embodied in Elijah’s prayer for rain. He prayed seven times, and the first sign was only a cloud the size of a man’s hand; continued prayer was associated with the cloud’s becoming an outpouring of rain. Spiritual maturity therefore involves remaining in the position of prayer long enough to recognize and pursue the first small sign of an answer.
The book’s final contrast is developmental and communal. The woman with the issue of blood was healed by initiating contact with Jesus, while the twelve-year-old girl was healed when Jesus touched her. Both forms of ministry are necessary: immature believers need the touch and care of mature ministry, but the purpose of that care is growth toward believers who can themselves take hold of God’s power. The twelve disciples then receive power and are sent out, symbolizing a church that no longer merely waits for a touch or seeks one for itself, but carries that power into the world.
