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Prayerlessness

Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your World

Prayerlessness, also described as leaving God alone, is presented as a spiritual condition in which people neglect sustained fellowship with God and reserve prayer for meals, emergencies, or other convenient moments. Its decisive danger is not merely the absence of a religious activity but the abandonment of a relationship that the book portrays as desired by God Himself. Against distraction, discouragement, and institutional neglect, the text calls believers to persistent, scheduled, and collective prayer as the means by which personal crises, churches, cities, and nations may be brought before God.

Definition and Personal Origin

Prayerlessness begins when prayer is displaced by the demands of ordinary life. The author develops the idea through a personal encounter: as he reached for the door of his prayer and study room, he heard an inward plea not to leave. He had finished the hour he had allotted for prayer and was already thinking about his crowded agenda, yet the experience forced him to recognize that prayer was not simply a duty completed when the clock ran out. He understood the moment as revealing God’s longing for fellowship and His disappointment when that fellowship was treated as expendable.

The author connects this insight with Psalm 14:2, which depicts God looking down from heaven to see whether anyone understands and seeks Him. He also associates it with Moses, whom Scripture describes as speaking with God face-to-face as a friend. In this reading, prayerlessness is the refusal of a friendship God actively seeks. The phrase leaving God alone therefore carries relational force: it names the believer’s withdrawal from a meeting God desires, not God’s withdrawal from humanity.

The condition is especially visible when prayer is reduced to a memorized blessing before food or reserved for moments of crisis. The author recalls offering a hurried meal prayer without meaning or even hearing the words, then sensing God challenge the sincerity of what had been said. The contrast is central to the book’s argument. Emergency prayer may become easy because danger supplies urgency, but God is said to desire consistent time regardless of whether circumstances are favorable or desperate.

Causes, Avoidance, and Spiritual Consequences

The book identifies distraction as a principal cause of prayerlessness. In a fast-paced society, believers can lose the time they need with God, while pastors and churches can substitute prayer with programs, meals, teaching, and other preferences. The author reports finding many American churches without a regular midweek prayer service or even a daily prayer time for their prayer teams. Some pastors removed scheduled prayer because attendance had fallen so low that only a few people came.

This institutional pattern is treated as more than a scheduling problem. Acts 6:2-4 is invoked to show the apostles giving priority to the Word of God and prayer while assigning functional ministry tasks to others. In the author’s interpretation, modern ministers face so many distractions that prayer and Scripture are displaced, and the Holy Spirit consequently has less opportunity to move powerfully. The loss of prayer is thus linked to the perceived lack of miracles in the contemporary church.

Prayerlessness also produces avoidance after failure. Christians who repeatedly fall short in prayer may feel ashamed, assume that God is angry, and run away from prayer rather than return to it. The book compares this response with Adam and Eve hiding from God after eating what they had been forbidden to eat. Their attempt to cover themselves and avoid God’s presence becomes another form of leaving God alone. The proposed remedy is not concealment but returning to God, acknowledging the failure, and beginning again.

A Discipline of Continued Fellowship

The practical alternative is a deliberate habit. The author urges believers to establish a particular time and place for meeting God, to speak openly to the Lord about their desire for fellowship, and to remain committed until the practice becomes permanent. This arrangement treats prayer as an appointment rather than an option that can be surrendered whenever the day becomes busy. Its purpose is not mechanical regularity alone, but the cultivation of a personal relationship that moves God’s heart.

The same principle applies corporately. A church becomes a house of prayer when prayer occupies the center of its common life rather than being delegated to a small group of intercessors. The author calls for the whole congregation to attend prayer services and argues that such shared commitment can enable God to shake cities and nations. Supporting pastors through attendance and participation is described as a way for ordinary church members to help their congregations rise to a new level of prayer and become a blessing.

The book repeatedly presents persistence as the test that distinguishes genuine prayer from momentary religious speech. In Acts 12, after Herod killed James and imprisoned Peter, the early church did not rely on natural political or public strategies; it continued praying. The narrative treats the church’s diligence as the reason Peter’s imprisonment became an occasion for divine intervention. Prayerlessness would have left Peter’s danger to the power of the prison and the ruler, whereas persistent prayer made the crisis a matter brought before God.

Prayer as Collective Action

The concept expands from private devotion to organized action on behalf of communities and nations. The author argues that the cry of righteous people must become louder than the cry of evil. Silence about sickness, damaged marriages, crime, or civic disorder is portrayed as surrendering those circumstances to themselves; persistent prayer instead makes them objects of direct spiritual concern.

In the discussion of cities, the author uses Ezekiel 28:16-19 to list six destructive influences associated with Lucifer’s fall: violence, profanity, corrupt wisdom, defiled sanctuaries, iniquities, and terror or fear. He argues that determined prayer can confront these influences and urges readers disturbed by murder and crime in their towns to continue praying until the numbers decline. Prayer is therefore represented as a form of collective mobilization: it creates a shared identity, names a common enemy, gathers people around repeated practice, and assigns responsibility for public conditions to a praying community.

The account of Florida hurricanes illustrates how the author interprets persistence, failure, and renewed mobilization. In 2004, while ministering at a conference in Jacksonville, Florida, he prophesied that two back-to-back hurricanes would threaten the state and said prayer could keep them away. People prayed, but the hurricanes still came, which he interpreted as evidence that prayer needed to rise to a higher level. The following year he again named a storm and specified a period in which it would arise from the Atlantic Ocean. Hundreds then prayed fervently and determined that the storm would not enter as before; according to the account, it never struck them. The author further says that in 2006 the United States experienced no major hurricanes after collective, individual, and fervent prayer, presenting the result as a contrast between tentative prayer and refusal to accept no as the answer.

A similar national application appears in the author’s prayer for the United States. While asking God for mercy, he experienced an overwhelming sense of holy fear and heard a message that the nation was being given another chance, as Nineveh had been spared, because God was not finished with it. He connects this experience with Moses standing up for his people and argues that believers likewise should continue before God until their desire for the nation is fulfilled. The claim does not treat national preservation as automatic; it depends on people refusing silence and maintaining their intercession.

Witness, Crisis, and Theological Significance

The book reinforces its teaching through testimony narratives in which prayer becomes decisive amid danger. On a late-night interstate drive after taking a guest speaker to the airport, the author was worshiping God when he saw a car stopped with its flashers on and a man lying in the roadway after being struck while attempting to cross the highway. He braked, stopped, and joined a marine at the scene while the driver, shaken and crying, crouched over the bleeding victim. The episode appears as an example of a daily pursuit of God preparing a person to respond when circumstances allow no dependence on ordinary reassurance.

The same testimonial pattern appears in a hospital crisis involving an elderly relative who lay in a coma, unresponsive to touch or sound. The author said he believed the person would die at 4:00 p.m. that day and warned that she did not know Jesus Christ. He then instructed the relative’s friend to clear the room, command her to wake in Jesus Christ’s name, and share the gospel before the stated time. The narrative frames prayer and spiritual intervention as urgent because the crisis involved both physical life and the person’s perceived spiritual destiny.

Prayer is also linked to healing when a newborn girl developed an incurable disease attacking her liver and blood. Her platelet count was extremely low, her liver was failing, and doctors reportedly gave her an 11 percent chance of survival. The church prayed for days while the situation worsened and continued speaking healing promises. The author describes a moment when fear and shock were set aside and he, the child’s parents, and others determined that the child would receive a miracle. The episode embodies the book’s recurring movement from medical crisis to communal prayer, from apparent silence to renewed determination.

A family crisis involving the author’s wife’s father provides another image of a dying hope. His unexplained fever began during a July 4 camping trip, temporarily receded after three weeks of antibiotics, and returned by the first week of December. Emergency surgery discovered diverticulitis and a ruptured bowel; septic shock followed, and he required a medical coma. His body swelled to three times its normal size, his temperature reached 105 degrees, nineteen intravenous bags supplied medicines, fluids, blood, and food, and eight physicians treated him while his liver, kidneys, and lungs began to fail. The family’s continued prayer is presented as the refusal to abandon a dream that appeared to be dying.

Finally, the author recalls a neighbor whose life he had been urged to cover in persistent prayer despite their lack of natural common ground. Weeks later, the neighbor fell from a highway overpass while working construction, landed in mud, and survived with doctors concerned primarily about possible brain damage. The neighbor’s bandaged condition made the event appear nearly fatal, yet the author interprets his survival as an answer to the earlier intercession. Across these testimonies, prayerlessness is defined by what it leaves unattended: a bleeding body, an endangered soul, a failing child, a collapsing family member, or a neighbor exposed to sudden death. Persistent prayer, by contrast, is portrayed as the practice that keeps returning to God until crisis is met with intervention, endurance, or deliverance.

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