Sofia visits her father in Athens
Hot MilkSofia visits her father in Athens after eleven years apart, seeking not only a reunion but also advice about her future and her responsibility to Rose Papastergiadis. The visit brings Christos Papastergiadis’s new household into view, then tests whether their renewed contact can bear a difficult request. He welcomes Sofia, but when she asks what to do about doctoral study and leaving her mother, he retreats into the routines and obligations of the family he now has.
The decision and the journey
The visit follows Sofia’s decision to go to Athens after smashing an imitation Greek vase. In the square, a children’s entertainer is setting off firecrackers while children laugh; Sofia hears that he is riding a unicycle and blowing fire from his mouth. Looking at the broken vase, she takes it as a sign to fly to her father. The decision turns an object tied to Greek identity into a prompt for action: rather than leave the fragments as a domestic accident, she reads them as an opening toward a relationship left unresolved.
At Athens International Airport, the contrast between the two arrivals is immediate. Sofia is alone with her suitcase; Christos is waiting with his new wife and their baby daughter. The wheels of the suitcase on the marble floor provide the sound between them as they approach. They have not seen one another for eleven years, yet recognize each other without hesitation. Christos takes Sofia’s suitcase, kisses her cheek, and welcomes her. His appearance seems changed but familiar: he is tanned and relaxed, his hair blacker than the silver she remembers, and his carefully ironed blue shirt has sharp creases at the elbows and collar.
A reunion with a new family
As they walk toward his wife and younger daughter, Christos asks Sofia about the flight: whether she slept, had a snack, sat by the window, and found the toilets clean. The questions make the reunion briefly ordinary, even careful, but they also delay the encounter with the distance between them. Only then does he introduce Alexandra and Evangeline. He explains that Evangeline’s name means messenger, like an angel, and presents her as Sofia’s sister.
Sofia observes the new family in close physical detail. Alexandra’s denim shirt is damp with milk, and a steel brace crosses her front teeth; she looks tired, yet open and welcoming, with some wariness. Evangeline has abundant black hair and brown eyes. These details make the household more than an abstract rival to Sofia’s lost family life: it is a present, embodied family with its own needs and rhythms. Sofia’s uncertainty about calling Christos Papa remains even after his greeting. He asks her to use that name, but she cannot yet say that she is sure she can; writing it down seems easier than speaking it.
The request and Christos’s retreat
The visit becomes a practical appeal when Sofia raises the possibility of finishing her doctorate in America. She is considering asking Christos for financial help, but also for his time: she could update him on her life and ask him to listen. The question underneath the request is whether listening to her would be to his advantage. That calculation gives the conversation a sharper edge than a simple request for money; Sofia is unsure whether she can ask for care without first presenting a reason that benefits him.
She tells him that she would need to fund her studies and would have to leave Rose alone in the United Kingdom. She does not know what to do and asks for advice. Christos’s face tightens and his eyes seem to withdraw. He mentions that grants are available for overseas study, but says Rose has chosen to live as she does and that her situation is not his concern. The answer addresses the possibility of funding while refusing the family responsibility that troubles Sofia. It leaves her with the same decision and no clear permission to pursue it.
When Sofia asks directly what she should do, Christos steps backward toward the closed door. He asks her to let Alexandra sleep because Evangeline is feeding constantly, and says that he needs to rest as well. The request for rest belongs to the household’s immediate routine, but in this exchange it also ends Sofia’s attempt to draw him into a longer reckoning. Christos does not deny that she is his daughter: he has recognized her, welcomed her, and introduced her to her half-sister. Yet he will not take up the question of what she owes Rose or what help he might owe Sofia. The names of Christos, Alexandra, and Evangeline remain together in her mind, followed by the fact that they all need to nap.
What the visit leaves unresolved
The encounter gives Sofia contact without reconciliation. The airport greeting and Christos’s request that she call him Papa offer the gestures of renewed kinship; the conversation about doctoral study reveals how limited that renewal is when it requires time, advice, or responsibility. Sofia’s dilemma is not resolved in Athens: she must still weigh completing her doctorate against leaving Rose, and Christos’s answer does not relieve her of choosing.
The visit also sits within Sofia’s unsettled relationship to Greek inheritance. In another scene, she describes her family through both its Greek and Yorkshire sides, connecting Greek relatives with catching fish and Yorkshire relatives with buying it from dockworkers. The Athens journey brings that inherited identity into contact with a father who has built a separate household, without making cultural recognition equivalent to emotional repair. After Sofia returns, a story about sea police, a suspected gasoline spill, and a local worker forced to taste the water places her again among the practical, uneasy judgments of coastal life. The contrast is telling: the trip carries her across distance to ask what family can provide, but it does not make either family obligation or the waters around her straightforward.