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Los Angeles

I'd Like to Apologize to Every Teacher I Ever Had

Los Angeles is the absent home around which Tony Danza’s teaching year is emotionally organized. Although the book’s principal action takes place at Northeast High School in Philadelphia, Los Angeles remains the destination of family life, the point from which Danza measures distance, marriage, fatherhood, age, and the cost of becoming a teacher. It is both a literal place of return and an emotional counterweight to the school community that gradually claims his attention.

Home, Family, and the Decision to Teach

Los Angeles is where Danza’s family continues living after his television talk show ends and his marriage begins to break apart. In 2007, he had been hosting a live weekday program in New York City, but after the show was canceled, he and his wife separated after twenty years of marriage. Only the youngest of their three children still lived at home in Los Angeles. The city therefore represents more than a residence: it is the household from which Danza has become estranged and the family structure he fears he may no longer be able to restore.

That crisis helps produce his transition to teaching. Approaching sixty, Danza becomes conscious of mortality, especially because his father lived only to sixty-two. The cancellation of his show, the separation from his wife, and the sense that time is narrowing lead him to reconsider an early vocational dream. He had earned a history degree and originally intended to teach before being redirected into boxing and acting. Even his television character on Who’s the Boss? had eventually become a teacher, but playing one on television could not satisfy the desire to contribute in an actual classroom. Los Angeles is thus the starting point of a life reorientation: leaving its family-centered orbit for Philadelphia is presented as a deliberate attempt to recover a road not taken.

Distance During the School Year

The separation between Los Angeles and Philadelphia becomes most tangible around Thanksgiving. Danza initially intends to fly home for the holiday because he misses his wife and daughters and wants to know whether they miss him. The trip, however, would require leaving Philadelphia after school on Wednesday, enduring a six-hour flight, spending only three days at home, and returning early Sunday morning for a Monday schedule that begins with a four-o’clock wake-up. The practical burden makes the distance exhausting, but the emotional difficulty is greater: Danza expects that even in Los Angeles he would spend the holiday talking and thinking about his students.

His uncertainty becomes painful when he phones his elder daughter and admits that he has not bought a ticket because he is unsure when he can get home. Her easy reassurance leaves him unable to interpret whether she is being generous, resigned, or simply accustomed to his absence. He recognizes the irony that he is trying to teach students to read while finding himself unable to read his own daughter. Los Angeles becomes the location of a family relationship that cannot be managed through professional confidence or classroom technique.

After a student conference with Gwen, whose schoolwork improves while she also indicates that conditions at home are getting better, Danza tells his wife about the encounter and apologizes for having acted like a creep. They agree that flying home for only a few days does not make sense, though he dislikes how readily she accepts the decision. Instead of returning to Los Angeles, he considers taking the students to New York for a major field trip. The choice shows how the school’s demands have begun to displace the automatic rhythm of family holidays.

Los Angeles in the Students’ Futures

Although Los Angeles is separated from Danza’s classroom, it becomes linked to the students’ possible futures. Alex, a student whose poetry gives him a reason to attend and persevere at school, develops into Northeast High School’s unofficial poet laureate. He competes in the Philly Youth Poetry contest and earns a trip with the team to Los Angeles, where he is scheduled to compete against street poets from across the country. He also writes poetry for UnLitter Us, a local campaign encouraging Philadelphians to clean up their city.

For Alex, the arts provide a route into school and a source of identity. Danza contrasts his poetic achievement with the conventional forms of recognition he does not possess: Alex is not a jock, a mathematics or science prodigy, a candidate for class president, or a yearbook editor. Poetry is what makes him a rock star and helps get him through school. Los Angeles therefore appears not only as Danza’s home but also as a promised destination in a student’s developing life, a place connected to artistic competition and possibility rather than merely to the teacher’s private obligations.

At the end of the school year, Alex asks Danza whether he will be able to see him in Los Angeles. Danza agrees, but makes the promise conditional on Alex doing well for his own sake rather than merely to earn a trip. The exchange extends their relationship beyond the classroom while also clarifying its purpose: the destination may motivate Alex, but education cannot be reduced to a reward. Los Angeles functions here as a future horizon, while Danza insists that the student’s growth must remain the deeper objective.

Return, Separation, and Meaning

Danza does return to California for Christmas vacation, ready to take on the world, but the visit does not erase the structural tension between family and teaching. When he later explains his situation to Eric, he describes living three thousand miles from home and recalls that he had already spent two years in Manhattan while his family learned to live without him. After that television job ended, he tried to put the family back together but felt unable to make them understand how much he needed their help. The more unsupported he felt, the more he demanded and begged for reassurance, making the situation worse. Los Angeles is the home to which he returns physically but not yet emotionally restored.

The question of whether he will return to Northeast High School exposes the conflict most directly. Lynn Dixon asks whether he will teach again the following year, and Danza admits that, at his age, he is not sure he wants to care so much about anything. Later, at the Sons of Happiness gathering, Joe Connelly asks the same question. Danza initially says he does not know, but realizes even as he answers that he does. He needs to go home and work on being a husband and father, while also acknowledging that teaching is extremely hard work.

Los Angeles consequently marks the limit Danza chooses to honor. His students have become important enough to make leaving painful, and the final departure leaves him bereft; yet the pull of family remains decisive. The city’s significance lies in that unresolved balance. It is not a simple refuge from Philadelphia, nor does it cancel the transformation produced by the classroom. Instead, Los Angeles is the place where Danza must take responsibility for the life that existed before teaching, while carrying forward the commitments, promises, and enlarged sense of purpose that the school has given him.

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