Andrew Bloom
It Ends with UsAndrew Bloom is Lily Bloom’s father and the posthumous center of the novel’s opening confrontation with public reputation. In Plethora, Maine, he was remembered as a prodigious mayor, the owner of the town’s most successful real-estate agency, the husband of the highly admired Jenny Bloom, and the father of Lily Bloom. Yet the daughter who delivers his funeral speech knows him through a far darker private history: he abused Jenny Bloom, attacked Atlas Corrigan, and helped shape the emotional pattern Lily later struggles to recognize in her own marriage.
Public Identity and Private Contradiction
Andrew Bloom’s social identity is built from honorific roles. His funeral gathers the town around the death of a prominent civic figure, a prosperous businessman, and a seemingly exemplary husband and father. Lily Bloom’s presence complicates that image because she is not simply mourning a respected man; she is the daughter of the man whose violence defined the atmosphere of her childhood. The contrast between the adored mayor and the abusive husband is therefore not incidental. It establishes the distance between public virtue and private conduct that the funeral setting attempts to conceal.
Lily’s eulogy exposes that contradiction through deliberate refusal. She introduces herself as Andrew Bloom’s daughter and begins by promising to honor his life with five great things about him, but offers no first item at all. The unfinished speech becomes an anti-eulogy: a public silence that refuses to manufacture praise for a father whose record Lily cannot honestly celebrate. Andrew’s death does not erase what he did; instead, it forces Lily to decide whether social expectations will outweigh personal truth.
Abuse of Jenny Bloom
Andrew’s most consequential relationship is his marriage to Jenny Bloom, which Lily remembers as organized around recurring violence and reconciliation. When arguments escalated, Andrew sometimes hit Jenny and then spent the following week or two trying to make amends. He bought Jenny flowers, took the family to a nice dinner, or bought Lily things because he knew that Lily suffered when her parents fought. The gifts created a disturbing emotional pattern in which violence was followed by comfort, and Lily came to look forward to the aftermath because the household could seem unusually pleasant once the assault had occurred.
Lily later recognizes that this pattern altered her sense of responsibility. As a child, she wanted the fights to stop, yet she also anticipated the rewards that followed Andrew’s attacks. As she grew older, she blamed herself for failing to intervene and wondered whether passivity made her as guilty as Andrew. His conduct thus harmed more than Jenny’s body: it trained the entire household to live around the next explosion, the apology, and the temporary return of calm.
The structure of Andrew’s abuse is made explicit in Jenny’s account of her marriage. Each incident pushed her personal limit farther. The first time Andrew hit her, he was immediately remorseful and promised it would never happen again. The second time, he expressed even greater regret. The third became a beating, while a later slap could feel like a relief because it was less severe than what had come before. Jenny describes how each incident weakened the boundary that might once have led her to leave, until endurance itself began to seem like evidence that she could endure still more.
Andrew’s remorse therefore functioned alongside, rather than against, his violence. His apologies did not prevent recurrence; they helped make returning seem possible. The pattern left Lily with an inherited confusion between love, regret, and danger, a confusion that becomes important when she later compares Andrew’s behavior with Ryle Kincaid’s. The novel does not present Andrew as an isolated villain whose actions have no aftermath. It presents him as the origin of a relational pattern that continues to shape the women and children around him.
Violence Beyond the Marriage
Andrew’s violence also reaches Atlas Corrigan. When Andrew discovers Atlas in Lily’s bedroom, he is angrier than Lily has ever seen him. Atlas is unprepared for the attack, and Andrew beats him with a baseball bat while Lily watches helplessly. The assault is so severe that Lily hears bones breaking through her screams; by the time police arrive and pull Andrew away, Atlas is covered in blood and nearly unrecognizable to her.
This episode reveals the force of Andrew’s possessiveness and the danger attached to his authority inside the household. Atlas is not merely rejected as an unwelcome boy; he is physically punished, while Lily is left unable to protect him. The memory remains one of the defining injuries of Lily’s adolescence, joining Andrew’s treatment of Jenny to form a larger portrait of a man who uses violence to control those with less power than he has.
Influence on Lily’s Choices
Andrew’s example becomes a standard against which Lily measures every later incident, but that comparison initially protects the pattern rather than breaking it. After Ryle pushes Lily in the kitchen, she hears Andrew’s familiar apology in her memory: the insistence that the violence was an accident and that regret should restore trust. When Ryle later pushes Lily down the stairs, he attempts to define what happened for her by telling her that she fell. Lily knows that she did not fall; he pushed her, and he pushed her again. The denial intensifies the connection between present danger and the childhood reality Andrew created.
Lily nevertheless resists identifying Ryle with Andrew. She reasons that Andrew had no excuse for his anger and was not immediately apologetic, while Ryle has disclosed his painful history and appears to be trying to become better. She tells herself that the situations are different and that she and Ryle are individuals rather than repetitions of their parents. That reasoning shows Andrew’s continuing power over her: even when she sees the violence, she interprets it through the scale of what he did, making anything less severe seem easier to forgive.
The narrative later makes the parallel unmistakable. The kitchen incident between Ryle and Lily reproduces the first time Andrew struck Jenny. Jenny had been cooking a casserole while Andrew was drinking. He pulled the casserole from the oven without a pot holder, Jenny laughed at him, and Andrew hit her so forcefully that she flew across the kitchen floor. Lily’s experience is therefore not merely reminiscent of Andrew’s abuse; it is deliberately patterned after it, turning the domestic kitchen into a recurring site where humor, pain, apology, and fear collide.
Legacy and Narrative Significance
Andrew’s legacy is not redeemed by his public accomplishments or softened by his death. His civic prestige makes Lily’s silence at the funeral more forceful, because the town’s admiration cannot accommodate the truth she carries. His history also complicates Lily’s judgment of herself. She fears that accepting abuse makes her resemble Jenny and that comparing Ryle with Andrew unfairly excuses Ryle, but the repeated parallels eventually expose the danger of using Andrew’s extreme behavior as the only measure of what counts as unacceptable.
Jenny’s eventual departure from Andrew demonstrates the possibility of breaking the pattern, though it came at a severe practical cost. She left before Lily turned three and Lily’s older sister turned five, without a college education, money, substantial help, local women’s shelters, or meaningful government support. For two years, the family lived on beans and macaroni and cheese. Andrew’s absence from that account is significant: Jenny, rather than Andrew’s remorse, becomes the person who takes the necessary steps to prevent the cycle from consuming the children.
The author’s reflection confirms that Andrew’s first assault on Jenny supplied the model for the kitchen incident between Ryle and Lily. It also explains why the character cannot be reduced to a simple monster within Lily’s memory. Andrew was not the best father or husband, yet Jenny’s decision to leave allowed Lily to maintain a close relationship with him later. That uneasy fact preserves the novel’s distinction between recognizing a person’s humanity and excusing the harm he commits. Andrew Bloom remains a loved father, a celebrated public figure, and an abuser at the same time; the narrative’s deepest judgment is that these truths can coexist without canceling one another.


