Lacy Baneblood
My Dark Mate: A Rejected Mate Werewolf Shifter RomanceLacy Baneblood is Ren Sheppard Chase’s grandmother, affectionately called Grammy Lacy or simply Grammy, and her importance lies less in the amount of time she spends on the page than in the kind of family she represents. She follows Ren after Ren leaves the pack, lives with a friend, and remains close enough for Ren to cook for her and her companion every Thursday, Sunday, and Tuesday. Through that routine, Lacy becomes a practical anchor in Ren’s unstable life: she is an older relative who accepts care from Ren while also giving Ren a reason to keep moving forward.
Identity and Family Role
Lacy is identified as Ren’s grandmother on her mother’s side. Ren explains that Lacy followed her after leaving the pack, a choice that makes the older woman part of Ren’s attempt to establish a life outside the family and pack structures that had failed to protect her. Ren’s cooking schedule is not presented as a ceremonial duty but as ordinary, repeated labor, and that ordinariness matters. Preparing meals for Lacy and her friend gives Ren a role in which she is useful, wanted, and connected to another person’s daily life.
Lacy’s presence also clarifies what Ren means by family. After Cole Chase and Trey Chase defend Ren against people who humiliate her, Ren realizes that she has people who will care for her and eagerly wants to tell Caleb Chase about it. Lacy belongs to this emerging network of chosen and protective relationships, but she does so through an older, more intimate form of kinship. Her attachment to Ren is not conditional on Ren’s usefulness, romantic status, or reputation after Shane Sheppard’s death. She stays with Ren when Ren most needs continuity.
Care After Trauma
Ren’s connection with Lacy is especially significant because it continues during the period when Ren is trying to survive the consequences of Shane Sheppard’s pursuit and death. Ren insists that Shane chased her and intended to hurt her, while she had still been trying to save him despite the danger. She struggles with recurring dreams that distort the memory of the cliff incident, and she is frightened of leaving the relative safety of her trailer to begin work for Caleb Chase. Against that fear, Lacy’s continued presence supplies a modest but concrete form of stability.
Ren’s characteristic response to danger is to search for a silver lining. She tells herself that everything will be all right, imagines that future pain may eventually become something to laugh about, and treats persistence and a cheerful smile as survival tools. Lacy does not erase the trauma behind that optimism, but her relationship with Ren helps make the optimism materially possible. Ren still has someone to feed, visit, and return to; hope is therefore not only an internal slogan but also a pattern of care.
Final Illness and Farewell
Lacy’s decisive appearance comes when she is dying. A phone call reaches Caleb Chase with the urgent message that Ren must come immediately because there is not much time. Ren rushes to the small house where Lacy lives and enters the bedroom in tears, finding her frail grandmother lying in bed. Caleb recognizes what is happening and sees Lacy reach out to stroke Ren’s bowed head. The scene reverses the usual direction of care: Ren has spent her time cooking for Lacy, but at the end Lacy’s weakened body requires Ren’s presence and emotional strength.
Lacy is relieved that Ren has arrived. She tells Caleb that she is grateful he has looked after Ren and kept her safe, and she asks him not to let Ren’s family seize control of her again. Her warning is specific: if Ren’s mother has returned, Lacy believes she wants something, and that desire is unlikely to benefit Ren. Lacy therefore understands Ren’s vulnerability in family terms and treats Caleb’s protection as a safeguard against renewed exploitation, not merely as a romantic gesture.
Lacy also recognizes the broader household forming around Ren. She refers to Caleb and the strong brothers around him, and says she can go peacefully knowing that Ren will not be alone. Her peace depends on a relational handoff: she is not simply dying; she is making sure that Ren has people who will remain after she is gone. Her request that Caleb help her be seen off turns the deathbed scene into a final act of trust between grandmother, granddaughter, and Ren’s chosen partner.
Knowing and the Meaning of Her Death
Lacy tells Ren that she has been ready to see her grandfather for some time, but stayed because she needed to know whether Ren would be all right. She asks Ren to see her home and then live her own life. Holding both Ren’s and Caleb’s hands, she closes her eyes. Ren then connects to her through the Knowing, and Caleb feels the change in the air as Lacy’s presence disappears.
The connection unsettles Caleb because it forces him to reconsider his earlier rejection of this aspect of Ren. He realizes that Ren’s Knowing is loving and peaceful rather than invasive or predatory. Lacy’s death consequently becomes a revelation about Ren as well as a loss. By accepting the final connection, Lacy allows Ren to accompany her across the boundary of death, while Caleb witnesses the tenderness of that act and understands that Ren’s gift is not something to fear simply because he does not control it.
Caleb gathers Ren close after Lacy dies and decides that Ren is his responsibility in a deeper sense than possession. He feels that, even though the bond frightens him, he owes Lacy part of himself. Lacy’s final trust therefore changes Caleb’s conduct: her blessing and warning make him confront the obligation to care for Ren rather than merely claim her as a mate.
Afterlife Memory and Legacy
Lacy returns later in Ren’s altered, post-fall experience, when Ren discovers that she is not dead after plunging from the cliff. Lacy appears with her familiar scent and embraces her, producing both longing and happiness. The encounter is playful as well as consoling: Ren jokes about searching for a figure from popular culture, while Lacy teases her and then announces that she must go to a bingo game with her grandfather.
Before leaving, Lacy tells Ren that love is two hearts meeting, that it requires work, and that it is always worth the difficulty. The advice directly addresses Ren’s unresolved conflict with Caleb. Ren has been hurt by Caleb’s rejection, withdrawal, and refusal to acknowledge what she wants, yet she still loves him and longs for a family. Lacy’s message does not reduce love to destiny or mating status; it defines love as a sustained effort between two hearts. In that sense, her words become a final moral framework for Ren’s reconciliation with Caleb.
Lacy Baneblood’s legacy is therefore inseparable from Ren’s movement from survival toward belonging. She feeds Ren’s hope through continued kinship, protects Ren by warning Caleb about her mother, accepts Ren’s supernatural gift at the moment of death, and gives Ren a standard by which to judge her future relationship. Her recurring silver-lining outlook echoes Ren’s own determination to keep smiling, but Lacy’s final counsel gives that optimism greater discipline: love may be difficult, yet it must be chosen and worked for rather than merely endured. Lacy leaves Ren with grief, a family network, and permission to live beyond the losses that once defined her.

