Elmer and His Mother
My Father's DragonThis flow traces the conflict between Elmer’s care for Old Alley Cat and his mother’s refusal, which precipitates his departure.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
The Cat Comes Home

An Unwelcome Guest
Elmer’s invitation
Elmer brings Old Alley Cat home because she is cold and uncomfortable. The cat hopes for warmth and a saucer of milk.
A conflict waiting
Elmer’s kindness enters a household where his mother dislikes cats. The differing responses establish the family tension that follows.
The Refusal of Milk

A Clear Boundary
The mother’s position
Elmer’s mother refuses to feed the stray, arguing that one saucer could invite every stray in town. She rejects the cat rather than consider Elmer’s attachment.
The child’s dilemma
Elmer must choose whether to obey the household rule or continue caring for his friend. The conflict becomes a question of loyalty.
Secret Feeding

Care in Defiance
Elmer’s response
Despite his mother’s refusal, Elmer secretly brings Old Alley Cat milk each day. The hidden routine protects their friendship but increases the risk of discovery.
Escalation
His private kindness challenges parental authority without resolving the disagreement. The eventual confrontation is made likely by the secrecy itself.
The Saucer Discovered

Punishment and Expulsion
The confrontation
Elmer’s mother finds the cat’s saucer in the cellar, whips Elmer, and throws Old Alley Cat out the door.
A decisive rupture
The punishment does not merely forbid feeding; it makes the home feel hostile to Elmer’s compassion. His later departure grows from this rupture.
Departure Made Possible

Leaving Home
The decision
After hearing about Baby Dragon, Elmer feels angry enough at his mother that running away for a while no longer makes him sad.
From conflict to action
The family disagreement helps propel him toward the rescue, though the mission is also grounded in concern for the dragon. Defiance becomes purposeful travel.
on the rainy day of their first meeting
shortly after the cat arrives
during the following three weeks
after three weeks of secret feeding
the afternoon Elmer chooses the dragon rescue