Paul Drabble
Nine Perfect StrangersPaul Drabble is the invented suitor whose elaborate online courtship makes Frances Welty believe she is entering a genuine romance and future family life. An American civil engineer with an apparently real social circle and a son named Ari, he uses close attention to Frances’s books and a staged medical emergency to win her trust and money. His exposure as a romance scammer does not erase what Frances had invested in the relationship: at Tranquillum House, she comes to see that Paul himself has no lasting hold on her, yet the imagined bond with Ari remains bound to the only time she considered becoming a mother.
Identity and Construction
Paul appears to Frances as an American civil engineer, introduced through what seems to be a friend of a friend of a friend. The supposed social connection lends him the reassuring familiarity of an extended circle, while his sustained attention makes the relationship feel personal. Over six months, he sends flowers, gift baskets, and handwritten notes, and speaks with her for hours by phone. In video calls, he claims to have read three of her books, discusses their characters knowledgeably, and quotes passages that Frances is secretly proud of. The performance is tailored not just to an abstract romantic ideal but to Frances’s particular identity as a writer: he appears to admire the work she has made and to understand why it matters to her.
The deception extends beyond the persona Frances encounters directly. Paul sends photographs of Ari and presents him as his son, a twelve-year-old who loves basketball and hopes to play professionally. Frances has brief, affectionate conversations with the boy over the phone and by Skype; his dry chuckle makes her imagine the relationship becoming real. Paul’s account of Ari’s family history adds an apparently poignant explanation for their circumstances: Ari’s mother, he says, died of cancer when the boy was in preschool. What Frances takes for the vulnerable detail of a family’s past is part of a story designed to make her feel attached to both father and son.
Courtship and the Promised Future
Frances does not merely imagine Paul as a romantic partner. She begins arranging her life around a future with him. Planning to move from Sydney to Santa Barbara, she has already booked flights. They would need to marry for her to obtain a green card, but she intends not to rush. She has even imagined wearing amethyst if they do marry, an appropriate stone, she thinks, for a third wedding. Paul sends photographs of a room in his house set up as her writing room, with empty bookshelves waiting for her books. In this carefully pictured future, he offers space for her work and a role in Ari’s life; the empty shelves make a home that has not yet happened seem nearly ready to receive her.
The prospect of becoming Ari’s stepmother reaches a part of Frances’s life she had not expected to change. She has never wanted children of her own, but falls for the boy Paul describes and prepares for the possibility by reading Raising Boys. Their conversations are short, as might be expected of a twelve-year-old, but she sometimes makes him laugh. The relationship is therefore more than a prop in Paul’s courtship: it becomes an attachment Frances experiences as meaningful, even though its supposed foundation is fraudulent. That distinction will persist after she understands how she was deceived.
The Fraud and Its Mechanism
The crisis that prompts Frances to send money arrives in a phone call in the middle of the night. Paul is distraught and can barely get his words out as he tells her that Ari has been in a terrible car accident, that an insurance problem has arisen, and that the boy needs immediate surgery. Frances does not hesitate. She sends a vast amount of money because she believes the emergency concerns a child she loves and the man she expects to join in caring for him. A young detective, carefully recording her account, momentarily loses his professional composure when he hears how much she sent. The detective’s reaction marks the scale of the loss, but Frances’s own explanation is simpler: Paul had asked for too little. She would have sent double, triple, or quadruple if she thought that was what it took to save Ari.
The police reveal that Frances is not the only woman caught in this design. The stories differ in their details, but the boy is always called Ari, the accident is always a car crash, and the desperate call comes in the middle of the night. Paul Drabble is one of several names attached to carefully curated online presences, arranged so that women searching for a suitor find the reassuring signs they hope to see. His supposed connection to Frances’s real-world acquaintances is another invention. He has built a fake Facebook page, feigned an interest in antique restoration furniture, and used comments in a Facebook group run by the husband of one of Frances’s university friends to look like a genuine person in her wider social network. By the time he sends Frances a friend request, his apparent familiarity has already been prepared for her.
Meeting another victim makes the scam’s human consequences visible in a way that a police account cannot. The woman shows Frances pictures on her phone of a bedroom she has prepared for Ari, decorated with Star Wars posters. Frances notices that the posters seem too young for the boy she had imagined, but keeps the thought to herself. The other woman is in even worse condition, and Frances writes her a cheque to help her get back on her feet. Her friends are astonished that, after losing money to a stranger, she gives more money to another stranger. For Frances, however, the cheque is a way to reclaim some agency and pride and to repair, where she can, the damage Paul has left. She can wish the woman had sent a thank-you card without making gratitude the condition of giving.
Aftermath and Frances’s Changing View
At Tranquillum House, Frances’s thoughts return to Paul alongside the money she lost, her surprise and hurt, the possibility that the supposed son was not his son, a rejected book, and a review she regrets having read. During the five-day noble silence, these thoughts initially circle in a repetitive loop. Observing the loop does not give her a solution or a revelation, but gradually slows it until, for brief stretches, her mind becomes empty. The retreat does not undo the fraud; it changes how Frances attends to its place among the other disappointments weighing on her.
The question of Ari resurfaces when Masha Dmitrichenko notes from Frances’s booking information that she has no children and asks whether that was by choice or circumstance. Frances answers that it was a choice, while privately thinking of the games Ari had planned to show her in America and wondering where he is now, or where the boy pretending to be Ari is. Her thought opens two possibilities without resolving which one is true. Even after Paul’s story has been exposed, the imagined child remains a point of grief because Frances had cared for him as someone she might actually meet and help raise.
Later, in a surreal encounter with figures from her own life and writing, Paul appears as a character in a scene with Frances’s former husbands, Henry and Sol. He calls attention to the cruel irony that he is fictional yet was loved more than either man; Henry and Sol join together in threatening him, and their unexpected alliance turns the scammer into a target of comic revenge. Then Paul vanishes. Frances realizes that the empty space he leaves behind contains no pain: he has come to mean nothing to her. She describes him as a debit on her bank balance, and Gillian corrects her to say debit rather than credit. Frances accepts the correction without surrendering her point that she is over him.
That declaration does not settle the loss attached to Ari. When the child’s voice says that Frances was the one who meant something, she cannot turn around to look. She tells Gillian that she thought she was going to be his mother and that this was the only time in her life she had even considered motherhood. Her embarrassment is part of the scene, but it does not make the feeling unreal. Paul’s con has collapsed; the longing connected to the future he fabricated has not disappeared with him.
Narrative Role and Significance
Paul’s scam joins financial exploitation to the making of an intimate fiction. He does not rely on a single false claim: he constructs a social presence, demonstrates apparent knowledge of Frances’s work, supplies a sympathetic family story, and lets her imagine a home and a role as Ari’s stepmother. The emergency call then converts that trust into money. Each element reinforces the next, so that Frances’s response is not a sudden lapse of judgment but the consequence of a future she has been led to believe is already taking shape.
His role also separates two kinds of attachment that the fraud has brought together. Frances can eventually dismiss Paul as a fabricated suitor who means nothing, and the comic disappearance in her imagined scene gives that release a decisive form. Yet she cannot simply dismiss the possibility of Ari, because the boy stands for a rare and specific future: the only time she considered being a mother. The story therefore treats recovery neither as proof that Frances was foolish to care nor as a requirement that she continue to grieve the scammer. Paul loses his hold; the significance of what Frances had hoped to become remains hers to understand.

