Shigeki at a Distance

This character flow follows Shigeki’s gradual separation from Hideo and the small opening created by their later exchange.

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A Son Turns Away

A Son Turns Away Shigeki grows less responsive to Hideo as he enters adolescence, while remaining close to Ayako. A Father’s Frustration Hideo sees the distance as repeated disappointment, even though he knows his expectations may contribute to it. A Relationship Left Unrepaired Instead of finding a new way to reach his son, Hideo learns to expect little from their conversations.

A Family Divides

A Family Divides When Hideo and Ayako divorce, Shigeki appears to side with his mother and ignores Hideo’s attempts to speak. A Convenient Explanation Hideo tells himself that his son must live with Ayako and that distance may be best for him. A Costly Decision He tries to forget Shigeki, but the choice leaves fatherhood as an unresolved part of his life.

A Father’s Impulse

A Father’s Impulse After receiving parental affection in Asakusa, Hideo wonders whether Shigeki might need a father’s care. A Reversal of Perspective The experience lets Hideo imagine his son’s needs without viewing the relationship only through his own disappointment. A Plan to Meet He tries to arrange lunch at a hotel, but discovers Shigeki is away in America.

Help with the Move

Help with the Move After Hideo leaves hospital, Ayako, Mamiya, and Shigeki help move his belongings to a new apartment. A Practical Gesture Shigeki’s assistance offers a concrete sign of concern, even without a dramatic reconciliation. Gratitude on the Phone Hideo calls to thank him directly, opening a conversation that had long been difficult to begin.

One of These Days

One of These Days Hideo asks Shigeki whether they might go to dinner together sometime. A Measured Answer Shigeki pauses before replying, “One of these days,” preserving his customary reserve. A Possible Beginning Hideo takes the response as a modest improvement rather than a promise, accepting that renewed closeness may proceed slowly.

from junior high onward

during the divorce

after Hideo’s last meeting with his parents

mid-September

the call after the move