The Family Battle Over Assimilation
The Captain and Ann BarbaraThe internal conflict between orthodox observance and American freedom within the Antin household.
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Bearing strength in each event
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The Lamp in the Night

The Lamp in the Night
The Violation Seen
Mary watched her father turn down the Sabbath lamp by degrees. It was a monstrous sin by the law of the Pale.
The Silent Understanding
She realized he did not believe the law was sin. He was a secret heretic who must hide for the sake of his children's bread.
The Two Worlds
She too was learning to live in two worlds. The family's religious unity was already cracking.
The Wig Left Behind

The Wig Left Behind
The Progressive Husband
Pinchus wrote urging his wife to leave her wig in Polotzk. He wanted to purge the house of superstition.
The Reluctant Wife
Hannah Hayye obeyed, but the process cost her pain. The fabric of orthodoxy was interwoven with her soul.
The First Step
The wig was the beginning of the domestic revolution. The children were to become Americans first and Jews only privately.
The Sabbath Store

The Sabbath Store
The Husband's Order
Pinchus kept the store open until Sunday morning while his mother or wife might light Sabbath candles at home. He allowed Jewish observance only up to the point it slowed Americanization.
The Children Sent to School
The children were sent to school on holy days. Religion could not interfere with their progress.
The Price of the Conflict
The first generation clung to tradition while the second led the life of the new land. Nothing could be more pitiful, more inevitable, or more hopeful.
The Atheist in the Schoolyard

The Atheist in the Schoolyard
The Disputed God
Rachel Goldstein challenged Mary about Passover, and Mary announced she did not believe in God. A crowd of believers demanded to know who made her.
The Freedom Fight
Mary defended her right to atheism in the name of the Constitution. She felt the battle was for American liberty.
The Teacher's Truce
Miss Bland taught her that religious arguments did not belong on school territory. Church and state were separate, and so were school and creed.
The Ham on the Teacher's Table

The Ham on the Teacher's Table
The Instinctive Revulsion
At Miss Dillingham's tea, Mary recognized ham as forbidden food. The liberal, the free, was afraid to touch it.
The Forced Bite
She took a slice and ate it in defiance of her own revulsion. Every mouthful was a battle with the inner Jew.
The Two Religions in Her Body
The test showed that emancipation was not complete. Her flesh remembered the ages her mind denied.
a Friday night in Polotzk
the eve of emigration
the American years in Chelsea and Boston
the Chelsea school years
during the Chelsea years