Adalieta Recognizes Torello at the Wedding Feast
The DecameronThe wedding-feast recognition is the decisive reversal in Messer Torello d'Istria’s return: a man believed dead appears among the guests as a stranger, and the ring Madam Adalieta once gave him turns apparent loss into certain recognition. The celebration prepared to begin her second marriage becomes the scene of their reunion, while the bridegroom’s willing retreat allows the couple to resume their life together.
The Return to a Wedding in Progress
Messer Torello d'Istria awakens in Pavia after a long absence, dressed in Saracen fashion and surrounded by the costly jewels that mark the generosity of Saladin. The monks who see him are frightened, and his uncle, the abbot, explains why: everyone in the region believes Torello has been dead for months. His wife, Madam Adalieta, has been overcome by the prayers and threats of her relatives and, against her will, has agreed to marry again. The new wedding is being celebrated that very morning.
Rather than announce himself immediately, Torello asks his uncle to keep his return secret until he has dealt with an immediate matter. He wants to see his wife before others know he is alive, so he and the abbot go together to the bridegroom’s house. Torello’s beard and foreign clothes conceal him; the abbot introduces him as a Saracen ambassador sent by Saladin to the King of France. Seated opposite Madam Adalieta, Torello can observe her closely, while she sees only a distinguished stranger. Her troubled expression suggests that the marriage weighs on her, but she does not recognize her husband, whom she has been assured is dead.
The Ring in the Cup
Torello chooses a custom of hospitality as the means to disclose himself. He sends word that, in his country, a bride welcomes a stranger at her feast by offering him the cup from which she drinks; after he has drunk, she takes what remains. Madam Adalieta, believing him to be a great gentleman and wishing to honor him, orders a large gilded cup washed and filled with wine.
Before drinking, Torello holds the ring she had given him at their parting in his mouth. He lets it fall unseen into the cup, drinks most of the wine, covers the vessel, and sends it back to the bride. When Madam Adalieta uncovers the cup to follow the custom, she finds the ring. She studies it in silence, recognizes it as her own gift to Torello, and then looks again at the supposed stranger. The token bridges the distance created by his disguise and her belief in his death: she recognizes her husband where neither his appearance nor the assurances of those around her had allowed her to see him.
Recognition and Interrupted Marriage
Madam Adalieta overturns the table before her and cries out that the stranger is her lord, Messer Torello. She runs to him and clings to his neck so tightly that he has to ask her to contain herself, reminding her that there will be time enough for embraces. Her unrestrained recognition abruptly changes the meaning of the gathering. The wedding feast has been arranged for another marriage; now its guests witness the return of the husband everyone had counted among the dead.
At Torello’s request, the company keeps quiet while he recounts what has happened since his departure. He asks the bridegroom not to take it amiss if, now that he is alive, he takes his wife back. The bridegroom answers frankly and as a friend that Torello may do as he pleases. His response removes the immediate social obstacle to the reunion: the woman’s new marriage need not be forced forward against her wishes or made into a contest between the two men.
The Feast’s New Ending
Madam Adalieta takes off the ring and crown given to her by the new bridegroom and puts on the ring she recovered from the cup and the crown sent by Saladin. With the wedding party accompanying them, she and Torello leave for his house. Their return comforts Torello’s grieving friends and relatives, as well as the townspeople, who regard his arrival as almost miraculous. The feast that was to mark her remarriage instead becomes a public celebration of his return and their renewed life together.
Torello shares his precious jewels with the man who had paid for the wedding festivities, the abbot, and many others. He also sends more than one message to Saladin, still professing himself Saladin’s friend and servant. In the years that follow, he lives with Madam Adalieta and practices hospitality and courtesy more generously than before. The ring’s role is therefore more than that of a private proof: it sets the recognition in motion, while the gifts and the subsequent life of hospitality carry the reunion beyond the couple. The episode closes by linking the happy outcome to the hospitality both men had practiced, and by contrasting freely given courtesy with hospitality for which recipients are made to pay more than it is worth.