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“Why Did I Ever Love That Cruel Woman”

The Museum of Innocence

“Why Did I Ever Love That Cruel Woman” is a song by Selahattin Pınar that, in the scene recalled by Kemal, turns private distress into a shared act of singing. Heard from the Mücevher Gazino after an unpleasant incident, it gives the group a way to share their sorrow and, by the end of the night, to seem to have put the disturbance behind them.

The Song in the Scene

The song reaches the group from the Mücevher Gazino. Tarık adds his voice to it, slowly swaying his head and his rakı glass as he sings. His measured gestures make the music part of the scene’s response to what has just happened: rather than continue the confrontation, the group turns toward a song already in the air.

A Shared Expression of Sorrow

The others join Tarık, with the sense that sharing the song’s sorrow will do them good. The scene presents singing not as a solution to the incident but as a common gesture that lets the group bear its emotional aftermath together. The song’s lamenting title gives that shared sorrow a pointed verbal form, without requiring anyone to explain it directly.

The Song’s Aftermath

Around midnight, while driving home, the group is still singing together. By then, the unpleasant incident seems to have been forgotten. The movement from hearing the song at the gazino to carrying it into the car gives the music a modest but decisive role: it accompanies a shift from public tension toward temporary ease, binding the group in a shared refrain as the night ends.