Baruch’s breakdown and escape from confinement
Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic RootsBaruch’s breakdown and escape from confinement mark a crisis in which family care, fear, and the limits of the household’s ability to help collide. The episode also reveals how distrust of outside institutions shapes the family’s response to mental illness, leaving Baruch’s future uncertain.
Background and Confinement
Baruch, the son of Devorah’s uncle Shulem, was seventeen when he suffered a severe mental-health crisis. He had once been a family prodigy, praised by rabbis and teachers for his exceptional Talmudic ability. By the time he was diagnosed with acute paranoid schizophrenia, he could no longer form coherent sentences, and his speech was no longer understandable to those around him.
Zeidy kept Baruch confined for months in a room in his office, while Bubby prepared food and passed it to him through a small slot in the door. Zeidy feared what might happen to the family if Baruch were free to wander through Williamsburg in his disturbed state. The confinement was therefore presented as an attempt to contain a frightening situation, but it also placed Baruch out of sight and separated him from ordinary family life.
Escape and Emergency Response
One night, Baruch broke through the door and escaped the room. His crisis escalated, and paramedics had to restrain and sedate him. Devorah watched from the upstairs landing. Her position as a witness gives the scene both immediacy and distance: she sees the emergency unfold, but she is not in control of the decisions adults make about Baruch.
The escape did not resolve the underlying crisis. It brought emergency responders into a household that had been trying to manage his illness through confinement, and it left the family facing the prospect of care beyond its own walls.
Family Response and Institutional Distrust
Afterward, Bubby cleaned the disorder left in the room and sat at the kitchen table, visibly shaken. Devorah understood that Bubby had never thought keeping Baruch locked away was right, but had yielded, as she often did, to Zeidy’s unilateral decisions. The episode thus reveals a difference within the family: Zeidy acted decisively, while Bubby’s reluctance remained largely unvoiced until after the crisis.
Devorah also recognizes the reasoning behind Zeidy’s choice. In their community, institutionalizing a mentally ill person was unheard of, and the family feared that an asylum run by non-Jews would not understand or meet the needs of a Hasidic Jew. Jewish laws and customs, she notes, still mattered in the care of a person who was mentally ill. Her account holds two judgments together: Zeidy undertook responsibility for Baruch’s spiritual welfare, yet he was poorly equipped to manage the effects of his psychosis.
Uncertain Aftermath and Significance
Devorah feels compassion for Baruch and fears that he will be confined in an unfamiliar place, cut off from the only community he has known. This is her apprehension about what may follow, not a confirmed account of his eventual placement or recovery. The episode closes on that uncertainty rather than on a resolution.
Baruch’s escape makes visible the cost of a family response shaped by both care and communal isolation. The household’s distrust of outside institutions helps explain why Zeidy tried to keep him at home, while the crisis demonstrates the limits of that approach. Devorah’s perspective neither dismisses Zeidy’s concern nor treats confinement as an adequate answer; it keeps Baruch’s distress and his uncertain belonging at the center.
