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I dare because I am free

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I dare because I am free is a declaration that joins freedom to the power of choice. In the book’s closing address, it answers accusations of sin and heresy with a claim of self-ownership, turning defiance into an affirmation of a freedom the speaker believes everyone deserves.

Context and Address

The expression appears in a direct address to people who call the speaker a sinner or heretic and ask, “How dare you?” Rather than defend herself within their moral terms, she reverses the challenge: daring is presented not as wrongdoing but as an exercise of freedom. The words confront condemnation without asking its source for permission to act.

Self-Ownership and Choice

The declaration is immediately explained through ownership of the self and the power to make decisions that concern it. Freedom here is therefore practical as well as emotional: it means having authority over consequential personal choices. The speaker does not claim that such choices are effortless; she claims the right to make them.

A Claim Extended to Others

The address moves beyond individual defiance. The speaker acknowledges that others may want the same freedom and says they deserve it too, even when they are told otherwise. The expression thus ends not as a private slogan but as an inclusive principle: resisting imposed judgment becomes a defense of other people’s capacity for self-determination.

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