Moving from Williamsburg to Elmont
Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic RootsMoving from Williamsburg to Elmont is a practical relocation and a bid for independence: as the narrator prepares to raise a child, she seeks space, privacy, and a life less constrained by communal scrutiny. The narrative places the new apartment in Airmont, just outside Monsey, and contrasts the quiet of the countryside with the crowding and watchfulness she leaves behind.
Why Leaving Williamsburg Matters
The narrator judges the couple’s Williamsburg apartment too small for a baby, with no room for a crib or toys. She imagines a home with a backyard and trees, recalling that her own childhood in a private brownstone with a garden had given her more room than the housing projects where most of her friends lived. The move is therefore tied to an approaching change in family life, not simply a preference for a different address.
Williamsburg also feels impossible to escape. The narrator resents neighbors’ staring, judgment, and gossip, and says even a quiet outing such as bowling risks attracting a busybody’s attention. Marriage has not brought the privacy she expected: in her experience, a married woman remains under scrutiny much as she was as a child. The cramped apartment intensifies that sense of exposure; even arguments in the neighboring home can be heard through the wall. Eli, too, is unaccustomed to Brooklyn’s close quarters, having grown up where people were more spread out.
Persuading Eli and Finding an Apartment
Because Eli is reluctant to take risks or change his circumstances, the narrator spends weeks preparing him for the move. She emphasizes his tedious two-hour commute and the time it could take away from being with the baby, and points out that his brothers and sisters live upstate. Her case turns relocation into a way to improve family life as well as her own surroundings.
Eli consults his brother Aaron, who responds enthusiastically, lists reasons for moving, and knows of an available apartment he can help them obtain at an excellent price. When the couple visits, the narrator is unimpressed by the apartment’s condition. She nevertheless treats it as a first step: once they are settled upstate, she hopes to find a better place. The prospect of leaving Williamsburg matters enough that she accepts an imperfect home as the means of getting out.
The Move to Airmont
By the time the narrator tells Aunt Chaya, the boxes are already halfway packed. Aunt Chaya appears approving, though her measured response leaves the narrator unsure how fully she endorses the plan. The narrator anticipates that life in Airmont, a small town just outside Monsey, will put her far from everyone’s mind and allow her, for the first time, to feel truly independent.
The new apartment occupies the bottom floor of a ranch-style house on a short dead-end street just off the New York State Thruway. Its setting combines rural quiet with the sound of passing traffic at night and the persistent chirping of crickets. For the narrator, those sounds soothe a city-shaped sensibility: the move does not require her to stop feeling connected to urban life, but gives her a different and less confining place to inhabit.
New Possibilities and Their Limits
The narrator loves the country and cannot imagine returning to the city’s prying eyes and cramped quarters. At first she walks along Route 59 to shop, but as her pregnancy advances she worries about relying on walking when she grows bigger. Knowing that some women in Monsey drive, she decides to take driving lessons and persuades Eli that learning will also help on long road trips. Relocation thus changes more than the couple’s home: it prompts her to pursue a practical new capacity and to imagine a wider range of movement.
That new independence remains situated within the pressures of her circumstances. Her driving instructor makes disparaging remarks about Hasidic women as baby machines, so she does not tell him she is pregnant. She wakes early to get through her vomiting before his lessons, then tries to conceal her queasiness when he arrives. The contrast makes the move’s promise tangible but incomplete: she has escaped Williamsburg’s neighborhood scrutiny, yet still has to manage how others see her and her pregnancy.