England
Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic RootsEngland enters the narrative as the home Rachel Levy leaves behind, not as an extended setting in its own right. Her move to the United States links her non-Hasidic German Jewish background to the Hasidic family she joined through marriage, and becomes part of the narrator’s later effort to understand both her mother’s choices and her own inheritance.
Community and Origins
Rachel was born and raised in a German Jewish community in England. Her family was religious but not Hasidic, a distinction that sets her background apart from the family she would enter in America. A child of divorce, she remembered herself as troubled, awkward, and unhappy; she also believed her prospects for marriage, especially a financially advantageous one, were limited.
Before leaving, Rachel lived on the charity of a London benefactor while attending a Jewish girls’ seminary. The account presents England through these circumstances rather than through a broader portrait of its Jewish community: it is the place where she grew up and where her constrained prospects made an offer from abroad seem like a passage to a different life.
Marriage as Migration
Rachel’s prospective marriage to the narrator’s father offered a route from England to America. His family was wealthy and eager to arrange a match for him. At twenty-four, he was considered unusually old to remain unmarried, and his younger siblings were waiting for his engagement before they could begin their own lives. Rachel, whose situation made the offer attractive, became his family’s candidate.
The proposed move was accompanied by substantial material promises. His parents prepared a seven-room apartment on the third floor of their brownstone, with new parquet floors, elegant wallpaper, comfortable furnishings, and luxurious rugs. They offered to pay the wedding and travel expenses and to provide clothes and jewelry. Rachel’s family and acquaintances were delighted at the prospect of her going to America and marrying into a wealthy household. The scale of the offer helps explain why she regarded the match as a dream, even though the arrangement was shaped as much by family needs as by her own hopes.
Arrival and Reception
In the beginning, Rachel was welcomed by her new in-laws. She recalled being treated as a novelty from England: a thin, pretty newcomer with a distinctive accent. Their enthusiasm also reflected what her marriage accomplished for the family. By marrying their brother, she relieved his younger siblings of the delay imposed by his single status, and they were initially grateful to see him settled.
Rachel described taking responsibility for her husband’s appearance and daily presentation. She made sure he looked neat and helped him appear more respectable to relatives who had been ashamed of his inability to care for himself. Her role thus extended beyond the move that brought her from England: she was expected to make the marriage work in ways that benefited her husband and his family.
Later Meaning of the Departure
The narrator later contrasts her mother’s departure with her own. Rachel left when she was older and did not take her daughter with her; the narrator understands her mother’s journey as more concerned with security than happiness. That judgment complicates the promise attached to the move from England. The marriage offered comfort, a new country, and a place in a wealthy family, but it did not guarantee lasting contentment or a shared future with her child.
England therefore matters chiefly as the point of departure in a family history shaped by marriage and migration. Rachel’s English upbringing remained a visible distinction in her new household, while the move itself became part of the narrator’s understanding of how family arrangements could offer possibility and impose costs at the same time.
