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Stories Women Are Allowed to Tell

What Are You Going Through

This thematic thread follows the novel’s attention to women’s experiences that are dismissed, sentimentalized, or reduced to familiar plots.

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A Lecture Seen Through GenderA Lecture Seen Through Gender from "What Are You Going Through". A Lecture Seen Through Gender A woman introduces the speaker The narrator notices the department head’s appearance and the work she seems to do to remain…
A Lecture Seen Through Gender A woman introduces the speaker The narrator notices the department head’s appearance and the work she seems to do to remain desirable while holding authority. Her sharp appraisal exposes the social terms imposed on women in public life. Intelligence and display The narrator remembers jokes and compliments that turn women’s brains or bodies into spectacles. The scene establishes how gender shapes who is taken seriously and under what conditions.
Women’s Stories DismissedWomen’s Stories Dismissed from "What Are You Going Through". Women’s Stories Dismissed Ordinary lives devalued The narrator recalls how stories about women’s emotional turmoil were dismissed as banal female concerns.
Women’s Stories Dismissed Ordinary lives devalued The narrator recalls how stories about women’s emotional turmoil were dismissed as banal female concerns. A group of women in a book could be described as women’s fiction rather than as a whole world. A literary hierarchy The dismissal narrows what readers consider significant. By recalling the women’s difficult interior lives, the narrator challenges the assumption that only grand public events deserve serious attention.
Carrington’s Unreturned LoveCarrington’s Unreturned Love from "What Are You Going Through". Carrington’s Unreturned Love Devotion outside convention Dora Carrington loves Lytton Strachey despite his homosexuality and marries another man while…
Carrington’s Unreturned Love Devotion outside convention Dora Carrington loves Lytton Strachey despite his homosexuality and marries another man while remaining devoted to Strachey. The three share a life that resists ordinary romantic categories. A life reduced to tragedy After Strachey’s death, Carrington dies by suicide. The narrator observes that public memory often defines her by her impossible love rather than by her painting.
A Male Writer’s CaricatureA Male Writer’s Caricature from "What Are You Going Through". A Male Writer’s Caricature A woman turned into a type D. H.
A Male Writer’s Caricature A woman turned into a type D. H. Lawrence portrays a character apparently modeled on Carrington as a lascivious caricature and later depicts a similar woman as a victim of sexual violence. The fictional accounts distort the complexity of an actual artist’s life. Authority over women’s stories The contrast raises the question of who gets to narrate women’s desire and suffering. Fiction can preserve experience, but it can also convert a woman into a warning or spectacle.
The Unfinished CollectionThe Unfinished Collection from "What Are You Going Through". The Unfinished Collection Strange love as subject The narrator imagines a collection of stories about women whose love is unconventional, hopeless, or…
The Unfinished Collection Strange love as subject The narrator imagines a collection of stories about women whose love is unconventional, hopeless, or difficult. She is drawn less to romance conventions than to lives shaped by attachment and loss. A wider literary claim Women’s stories are not lesser because they concern private life. Their emotional contradictions can expose structures of power and desire as clearly as public history does.
At the opening campus event
During the discussion of Ingeborg Bachmann
In the account of Dora Carrington’s adult life
After Carrington’s story is introduced
Near the middle of the book