The Argument Over Violence
Women TalkingThe women’s dispute over fighting gradually becomes a debate about pacifism, protection, and the forms violence can take.
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Bearing strength in each event
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Animals as Models

Run or Fight
Greta’s Analogy
Greta Loewen recalls how horses flee a threat and suggests the women may need to do likewise. Salome Friesen asks whether resistance should instead mean killing attackers.
No Easy Lesson
Agata Friesen’s raccoon story shows an animal fighting back. The competing examples expose how analogy can sharpen, but not settle, the moral choice.
Salome’s Rage

The Temptation of Retaliation
A Mother’s Threat
Salome Friesen says she would kill the men rather than allow them to harm another child. Her anger follows the assaults on Miep and other girls.
A Limit Named
Agata Friesen rejects desecration even while recognizing her daughter’s fury. The meeting must distinguish protecting children from becoming an instrument of vengeance.
Pacifism as a Reason to Leave

Nonviolence Reframed
Agata’s Conclusion
Agata Friesen argues that staying would place the women on a path toward violence, whether inflicted or endured. Departure may therefore protect their pacifist faith.
Resistance Without Combat
The argument makes leaving an active choice rather than passive surrender. It changes the terms of the dispute but does not erase the danger of the journey.
Violence at the Threshold

A Threat from the Neighbors
The Koop Brothers
The women fear that the Koop brothers may expose or block their departure. Salome Friesen asks for guns, while Agata refuses weapons and whips.
Means Under Strain
The group has to protect itself without abandoning the nonviolence it has just invoked. Its practical choices do not align neatly with its principles.
Drugging as Protection

Nonviolence Meets Necessity
The Koop Brothers Silenced
Salome Friesen uses Belladonna Veterinary Spray to render the Koop brothers unconscious and prevent them from warning the men. She also uses it on Aaron and a potential informer.
An Unsettled Resolution
The departure avoids an armed confrontation but uses coercion and bodily force. The women’s peaceful purpose does not make every action peaceful in effect.
June 6, 2009, at the opening discussion
June 6, 2009, during the debate over staying
June 6, 2009, later in the meeting
June 7, 2009, during preparation to leave
June 7, 2009, after the women begin leaving