Margot’s Return to the Family
Always and Forever, Lara JeanMargot moves from the distance of life abroad into a changed home and works through her place in a family that has continued without her.
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Coming Home with Ravi

Coming Home with Ravi
A changed welcome
Margot Song returns from Scotland with Ravi to find Trina Rothschild established in the Covey household. The home is familiar, but its rhythms and relationships have shifted.
Margot is affectionate with Kitty Song and polite to Trina, yet her stiffness reveals how much she missed while away. Lara Jean Covey realizes that what feels gradual to her may look sudden to Margot.
Distance made visible
The visit forces Margot to encounter change rather than hear about it secondhand. Her adjustment becomes a test of whether home can remain hers while becoming different.
The Bedroom Dispute

The Bedroom Dispute
Adult wishes and family rules
Margot Song expects Ravi to share her room, while Dan Covey would prefer that he use the guest room. The disagreement exposes the tension between Margot’s adult independence and her father’s authority in his home.
Ravi tries to avoid making the situation worse by offering to sleep separately. Margot resents the implication that she must still follow rules intended for a younger version of herself.
A strained compromise
Dan eventually yields, but the exchange leaves discomfort behind. Margot’s return begins with negotiation rather than effortless reunion.
A Wedding Without Her

A Wedding Without Her
Distance persists
Dan Covey announces that he intends to marry Trina Rothschild after Margot has returned to Scotland. Margot supports him, but Lara Jean Covey recognizes that her enthusiasm is guarded.
Margot is uncomfortable with how quickly the family seems to have accepted a future she has scarcely witnessed. She is not rejecting Trina so much as grieving the version of home she expected to find.
Concern carried abroad
The distance means Margot cannot take part in the family’s day-to-day adjustment. Her brief return leaves important feelings unresolved until she comes home again.
A Home Already Changed

A Home Already Changed
Noticing what moved on
Margot Song returns to a house containing Trina’s art, furniture, and belongings. She silently registers the changes, including the absence of her parents’ wedding portrait from its old place.
The altered rooms confirm that family life continued while she was abroad. Margot’s reaction is not simply jealousy; it is the shock of realizing that belonging does not preserve a household unchanged.
Naming the loss
Later, Margot admits that she feels as if she returned to a new family. The admission gives Lara Jean a clearer view of the loneliness beneath Margot’s composure.
Grief Shared with Lara Jean

Grief Shared with Lara Jean
Beneath the conflict
Margot Song tells Lara Jean Covey that she misses their mother and wishes Kitty had known her. Her unease about Trina is tied to fear that family memory and Korean culture might fade.
Lara Jean reassures her that a new marriage cannot erase their mother. The sisters cry together, allowing their disagreement to give way to the older grief beneath it.
A softer return
Margot’s openness marks a shift from guarded criticism to connection. She can begin to accept that the household has changed without believing her place has vanished.
during spring break
the evening Margot and Ravi arrive
after Margot returns to Scotland
the night before Lara Jean’s graduation
the night before the bachelorette party