Virginia
Always and Forever, Lara JeanVirginia is the Covey family’s home ground and a landscape of both attachment and departure. The novel makes the state more than a backdrop: its June beauty frames a family wedding, while its colleges, workplaces, and familiar routines give shape to the characters’ different ideas of where a future can begin.
Home and Landscape
In June, Virginia appears at its most welcoming: honeysuckles scent the air, and the day is green, sunny, and full of promise. The wedding setting prompts Lara Jean to imagine that she, too, might marry at home. The landscape lends the ceremony a sense of continuity even as the family changes around it.
That continuity is not simple nostalgia. A year earlier, Trina Rothschild was the neighbor whom Kitty and Lara Jean watched hurry to her car and spill coffee; now she is marrying Dan and becoming their stepmother. The movement from neighbor to family member shows how home in Virginia is made not only by a place but by relationships that alter over time.
College, Work, and Possible Futures
Virginia also holds several possible paths into adulthood. As Lara Jean adjusts to not attending the University of Virginia, Peter imagines a transfer route: she could begin at William & Mary or another four-year college, then apply to transfer to UVA. The suggestion offers hope, but it is still a plan rather than a settled destination; Lara Jean is learning to live with a future that may not follow her first choice.
The prospect of work in Colonial Williamsburg gives her another way to picture life in the state. She imagines wearing period clothes and churning butter, while wondering whether the workplace would hire an Asian person in the name of historical accuracy. Margot counters that a mixed-race actor can play Eliza Hamilton and says they would challenge the employer publicly if it refused to hire Lara Jean. The exchange makes the local job idea a question of who gets to inhabit Virginia’s public version of its past.
Belonging and Cultural Identity
Virginia’s college environment also raises questions about community and identity. Margot advises Lara Jean to make her own friends at UVA rather than relying on Peter’s lacrosse circle, and to join the Asian association. Having studied in a different country, Margot says she missed an Asian-American group and describes college as a time when students encounter questions of racial identity. Her advice treats belonging as something Lara Jean can actively build, not merely inherit through a boyfriend or hometown.
The family’s relation to Korean culture remains part of that sense of belonging. Margot calls Korean food the sisters’ strongest link to Korean culture and worries that Trina’s dislike of it could leave that connection unacknowledged when she marries Dan. Lara Jean answers that they will eat Korean food every day during their summer away. Virginia is thus home to a family whose cultural ties extend beyond the state, and whose members differ over how a new family member should honor those ties.
Departure and Return
Virginia is the point from which several departures acquire emotional weight. Chris plans to spend a year working on farms in Costa Rica, where labor provides room and board, while considering other possibilities such as a surfing school in New Zealand or learning winemaking in Italy. Later, Lara Jean senses that Chris’s move may be permanent despite her saying it is only for now. The possibility of staying in Virginia for community college and a local job would feel, to Chris, like being left behind; her departure instead becomes an adventure.
The sisters’ own summer departure is organized as a return to cultural inheritance: Dan and their grandmother arrange a July in Korea, including a stay with a great-aunt in Seoul, Korean-language classes, a tour of Jeju and Busan, and a Korean pastry-making class for Lara Jean. Dan and Trina cannot join because Dan cannot take that much time away from the hospital. Against this planned journey, Virginia remains the family’s home base—not the limit of belonging, but the place from which the sisters can leave and to which their changing family remains connected.