Sayuri–General Tottori relationship
Memoirs of a GeishaSayuri–General Tottori relationship is a danna arrangement shaped chiefly by the Nitta okiya’s practical needs rather than by personal affinity. The General’s military-procurement post gives the alliance real economic and institutional value, but Sayuri describes their encounters as an unpleasant routine and receives little of the luxurious treatment she associates with other patrons. The relationship helps sustain the household while widening the distance between Sayuri and Nobu, whose judgment of the General becomes a source of conflict.
Formation and Terms
Mameha presents the General’s new position in military procurement as an opportunity: he is now in a position to take a mistress for the first time, and, she says, he has expressed interest in Sayuri. The office matters because it gives him influence over supplies and services, not simply because it improves his personal standing. Mother initially doubts that a military patron will care for a geisha as well as a businessman or aristocrat, but the arrangement is ultimately accepted as advantageous to the okiya.
During September, when Sayuri is still eighteen, she and the General drink sake together in a ceremony at the Ichiriki Teahouse. The ceremony echoes two earlier turning points in her professional life: the sake ceremony with Mameha when Mameha became her older sister, and the later ceremony with Dr. Crab before Sayuri’s mizuage. In the weeks that follow, the household congratulates Mother on having made a favorable alliance. This public response stresses the arrangement’s value to the okiya, rather than any change in Sayuri’s own feelings.
The General directs Sayuri to meet him on the first night at Suruya, a small inn in northwest Kyoto with only three rooms. The modest setting contrasts with the lavish surroundings to which she has become accustomed. The General’s manner is direct, and Sayuri recalls the encounter as strange and unsettling; over time, her initial queasiness fades into what she calls an unpleasant twice-weekly routine. The account establishes the personal cost of the arrangement without making it the source of the benefits the household receives.
Economic Value to the Okiya
In daily life, becoming the General’s danna initially changes little for Sayuri. She continues making her rounds of Gion at night. The anticipated benefits that might accompany a wealthy patron—prominent dance recitals, lavish gifts, or paid leisure—do not appear. In this respect, Mother’s reservation proves accurate: Sayuri does not receive the conspicuous personal luxuries she associates with patrons from business or aristocratic circles.
The arrangement nevertheless covers a broad set of costs. The General pays for Sayuri’s lessons, annual registration fee, medical expenses, and other necessities. More importantly to Mother, his procurement role enables him to secure goods and assistance unavailable through an ordinary patron. When Auntie falls ill in March 1939 and the doctors consulted by the household do not help, a telephone call to the General brings a senior doctor from the military hospital in Kamigyo Ward, who supplies medicine that cures her. The episode makes concrete how institutional access, rather than lavish spending on Sayuri, forms the alliance’s chief practical return.
The General also sends regular deliveries of tea, sugar, and chocolates, goods that are becoming scarce in Gion. His support therefore grows more consequential as wartime shortages deepen. Although the household had expected the war to end within six months, the narrator recognizes in retrospect that the most difficult years still lay ahead. The supplies and medical intervention make the General’s connection valuable to the okiya beyond the ordinary expenses covered by a danna.
Sayuri and the General
The relationship is asymmetrical in its benefits and limited in personal intimacy. The General’s patronage offers Sayuri neither a transformed public career nor the comforts she had anticipated, while the household receives financial coverage and access to scarce resources. Her account characterizes the repeated meetings as routine and unpleasant rather than as a romance or a source of emotional fulfillment. The contrast between the alliance’s importance to Mother and its narrow effect on Sayuri’s daily life is central to how the relationship is presented.
Sayuri’s professional duties elsewhere in Gion show the wider performance expected of her, but the evidence does not present those scenes as evidence of closeness with the General. At banquets she introduces herself as a novice and follows Mameha’s lead; Mameha, meanwhile, demonstrates how practiced conversation can manage guests’ moods. These professional skills illuminate the social labor involved in geisha work, but they should not be confused with affection between Sayuri and her danna. The relationship with the General remains grounded in patronage and the household’s material needs.
Consequences for Nobu
The General’s appointment as danna changes Sayuri’s relationship with Nobu. That fall, Nobu stops inviting her to the parties where she had often entertained him and ceases going to the Ichiriki. Sayuri suspects that he is avoiding her. She writes to him at New Year, as she does to her patrons, but receives no reply. His absence costs her more than companionship: without Nobu’s patronage, she is no longer invited to Iwamura Electric’s parties and has fewer chances to see the Chairman.
Nobu eventually tells Sayuri that he has discovered the identity of her danna. He says he learned it after asking around Gion and arranging for Michizono to entertain him privately. His discovery makes explicit the difference between the community’s discretion and the personal rupture that the arrangement has caused. Sayuri says she would have told him if he had asked, but Nobu does not accept this assurance.
Nobu judges the General as a minor, untrusted military figure and tells Sayuri that he has lost respect for her for accepting such a patron. Sayuri answers that she has little control over who becomes her danna. Their exchange reveals how differently the two understand the arrangement: Nobu sees a choice that reflects on her judgment, while Sayuri stresses the constraints within which her working life is organized. His anger and her inability to restore his trust make the alliance costly in a way the household’s accounts cannot measure.
Significance and Retrospective
The relationship demonstrates how a danna arrangement can operate simultaneously as personal dependency and household infrastructure. For the Nitta okiya, the General pays expenses, supplies scarce goods, and can mobilize military medical help. For Sayuri, the same arrangement brings little visible change to her working routine, while contributing to Nobu’s withdrawal and eventual condemnation. The benefits accrue most clearly to the household; the emotional consequences fall heavily on Sayuri.
This imbalance also foreshadows the limits of patronage as protection. The General’s role provides useful resources during a period of shortage, but the arrangement cannot secure Sayuri’s friendship with Nobu or give her the freedom to choose a different patron. In retrospect, Sayuri’s account places the relationship among the compromises through which her professional and household circumstances shape her personal life: it is favorable to Mother, materially useful in a crisis, and deeply consequential without becoming a source of happiness for Sayuri.