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Giuliana’s Struggle for a Life of Her Own

The Lying Life of Adults

Giuliana’s engagement to Roberto promises escape from Pascone, but separation, insecurity, and family pressure expose how precarious her hoped-for independence remains.

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The Fiancée in a Family’s ShadowThe Fiancée in a Family’s Shadow from "The Lying Life of Adults". The Fiancée in a Family’s Shadow A young woman among competing loyalties Giuliana appears to Giovanna as beautiful, lively, and attentive to the household’s…
The Fiancée in a Family’s Shadow A young woman among competing loyalties Giuliana appears to Giovanna as beautiful, lively, and attentive to the household’s emotional balance. She is Enzo and Margherita’s daughter, but Vittoria exercises considerable authority in the family and treats the children as her own, leaving Giuliana’s place shaped by overlapping attachments. A future beyond Pascone By the time Giovanna learns that Giuliana is engaged to Roberto, the couple’s plans connect her to Milan and a different life. Giuliana appears increasingly composed and purposeful, yet her hopes depend on a relationship conducted across distance and on a household that resists her leaving. Her engagement gives her a route away from the life she fears, but not immediate freedom. Family affection, obligation, and Vittoria’s influence mean that each step toward independence risks being interpreted as disloyalty.
Anxiety Across the DistanceAnxiety Across the Distance from "The Lying Life of Adults". Anxiety Across the Distance Love under pressure Giuliana worries that Roberto’s work and life in Milan will matter more to him than their future together.
Anxiety Across the Distance Love under pressure Giuliana worries that Roberto’s work and life in Milan will matter more to him than their future together. She compares herself to the educated, accomplished women around him and doubts that he could continue to choose someone from Pascone with less schooling and confidence. Doubt amplified by family Vittoria and Margherita press Giuliana to secure the marriage and relocate to Naples, while Giovanna tries to reassure her that Roberto’s character makes him trustworthy. Giuliana’s fear grows when Roberto travels with Michela and other colleagues, and she imagines that a professional connection could become a rival for his affection. The anxiety is not simply jealousy. Giuliana fears losing the life and identity she has built around Roberto, because she believes that he has already carried her beyond the limits of her upbringing. Her dependence on the engagement makes each absence feel like a judgment on whether she deserves to leave.
The Journey to MilanThe Journey to Milan from "The Lying Life of Adults". The Journey to Milan A companion for the journey Giuliana travels to Milan with Giovanna so she can visit Roberto, after the family accepts Giovanna as a…
The Journey to Milan A companion for the journey Giuliana travels to Milan with Giovanna so she can visit Roberto, after the family accepts Giovanna as a chaperone. The journey begins awkwardly: Giuliana is burdened by anxiety, while Giovanna is absorbed in the prospect of seeing Roberto and unsure how to offer comfort. A different side of the couple In Milan, Giuliana moves confidently through Roberto’s apartment, knows its routines, and speaks about his work and colleagues. Giovanna sees that Roberto gives Giuliana credit and relies on her; she is not merely a poor fiancée waiting for rescue but someone who helps shape the life they share. The visit does not erase their differences or Giuliana’s insecurity. Still, watching her care for Roberto shows Giovanna that Giuliana’s place beside him is more substantial than a story of beauty, status, or geography alone would suggest.
A Public Witness to IntimacyA Public Witness to Intimacy from "The Lying Life of Adults". A Public Witness to Intimacy The outsider’s place Giuliana and Roberto spend the night together while Giovanna sleeps on the sofa.
A Public Witness to Intimacy The outsider’s place Giuliana and Roberto spend the night together while Giovanna sleeps on the sofa. The next morning, Giuliana remains close to Roberto in bed when Giovanna enters with coffee, presenting a moment of intimacy that makes Giovanna feel like an audience to the couple’s happiness. A fragile confidence For Giuliana, the scene appears to affirm a life she wants to make permanent. For Giovanna, it brings both pain and a disturbing sense of exclusion, sharpened by Roberto’s separate comment that she is beautiful. The same encounter can therefore reassure Giuliana while destabilizing the friend invited to accompany her. On the return train, Giuliana speaks at length about her fear that Roberto might leave her for a more suitable woman. Her disclosure is honest and perceptive, but it also makes Giovanna responsible for sustaining Giuliana’s confidence even while Giovanna conceals her own desire.
Hair Loss and the Lost BraceletHair Loss and the Lost Bracelet from "The Lying Life of Adults". Hair Loss and the Lost Bracelet Anxiety becomes physical On the train back to Naples, Giuliana realizes that the bracelet is missing and fears the fury…
Hair Loss and the Lost Bracelet Anxiety becomes physical On the train back to Naples, Giuliana realizes that the bracelet is missing and fears the fury Vittoria will unleash when she discovers it. Her distress escalates as she repeatedly twists her hair and pulls out locks, asking Giovanna whether she is dying. A friend becomes a caretaker Giovanna calms her, helps her cover the loss, and urges her to rest before facing Vittoria. Giuliana’s fear links the bracelet to more than its material value: it carries family history, Vittoria’s demands, and the burden of proving that she has not lost control of the relationships around her. The hair loss makes visible the cost of the pressure Giuliana has been carrying. Her future with Roberto remains possible, but her path toward it is marked by panic, dependence, and the sense that one mistake could expose her to another family confrontation.
When Giovanna first visits Margherita’s household at about thirteen
During the months after Giuliana’s engagement, while Roberto lives in Milan
The weekend of Giovanna’s sixteenth birthday
On Giovanna’s sixteenth birthday, during the overnight stay in Milan
The return journey from Milan, shortly before Giuliana reaches Naples