Vittoria and Margherita’s relationship
The Lying Life of AdultsVittoria and Margherita’s relationship is shaped by a painful reversal: Vittoria becomes Enzo’s lover, but after his illness the two women come to share in caring for his children and remembering him. Their bond does not erase the affair’s harm or make their household free of tension; instead, it grows through grief, practical care, and an unusual recognition of each other’s attachment to the same man.
The Affair and Its Consequences
Vittoria recounts that her relationship with Enzo was concealed from most of the family, though Andrea knew because Enzo was his friend and he had acted as an adviser. During a dispute over the family home, Enzo defended Vittoria’s claim to remain there. Andrea responded by accusing him of interfering in family business and threatening to expose the affair. Vittoria says Andrea then went directly to Margherita and disclosed the relationship in front of her and the children, making the private affair a crisis for both households.
Margherita initially opposed the relationship and took Enzo back. Vittoria does not present herself as innocent: she acknowledges that she took Enzo from Margherita and the children, and says that her love was strong enough that she would not have given him up. Her account describes love as capable of causing real harm, not as a justification that cancels its consequences. Andrea’s disclosure, meanwhile, widened the damage, involving Enzo’s wife and children in the conflict over the affair and the family house.
Shared Grief and Care
The relationship changes when Enzo becomes seriously ill. Vittoria says that Margherita, seeing how much Enzo and Vittoria loved one another, eventually told him to return to Vittoria and regretted not having done so sooner. By then, she says, it was too late for that choice to alter the course of his illness. Margherita and Vittoria went through it together until Enzo’s death.
Their connection continues through the children. Vittoria says she loved Enzo’s children and felt a duty to help raise them; she worked as a maid in wealthy households across Naples to support that commitment. Margherita, in turn, accepted Vittoria’s wish to love the children too. She framed their shared attachment as an acknowledgment that both women had loved Enzo and understood why he could inspire such love. In Vittoria’s account, this generosity is a defining contrast with the condemnation and social respectability she associates with Andrea and his circle.
A Household of Attachment and Unease
When Giovanna visits Margherita’s home, she sees the relationship not only in the women’s words but in their settled habits. Vittoria enters with her own key, and both women repeatedly refer to Enzo through unfinished recollections of what he would have enjoyed, disliked, or wanted. The framed photograph of him remains a focus in the kitchen, while the women’s references suggest a shared history that has persisted for years after his death.
The household is not presented as a simple harmony. Giovanna notices that Margherita often looks to Vittoria for approval and sometimes withdraws what she has said when Vittoria disagrees. She also observes that the children love and sometimes protect their mother, while showing Vittoria a wary devotion and treating her as a powerful presence in their lives. Corrado appears to be Vittoria’s favorite, to the annoyance of Tonino and Giuliana. The arrangement therefore joins genuine affection and practical solidarity to unequal influence and unresolved feeling.
Vittoria’s authority becomes visible when a disagreement arises over whether Tonino’s friend Roberto can stay overnight. Margherita objects that the home is too small, and the children look to Vittoria to settle the question. Vittoria supports Margherita’s objection but offers to have Corrado stay at her own home instead. The others respond with evident relief; Corrado resists, then gives in. The exchange shows how the women’s closeness operates within a wider family structure: Margherita’s household relies on Vittoria’s judgment even as her children remain protective of their mother.
Giovanna as Witness
For Giovanna, the relationship is both an intimate family history and a way of interpreting adult loyalties. Vittoria has invited her to observe closely, and Giovanna watches the women’s gestures and shared references as evidence of a life that predates her. She imagines their past as containing both affection and pain, and recognizes that their present closeness cannot mean the earlier conflict simply vanished.
That lesson becomes more consequential when Giovanna suspects her own mother’s closeness with Mariano and decides not to report what she has seen to Vittoria. She fears that Vittoria would interpret the scene through the language of her own experience with Enzo and use it against Giovanna’s parents. The choice shows that Vittoria and Margherita’s history has become a lens through which Giovanna reads other relationships, but also a warning: intimacy and betrayal can coexist, and an observer’s account can carry consequences for a whole family.
Significance
Vittoria and Margherita’s bond complicates the usual division between rival and victim. Margherita is hurt by the affair and initially acts against it, yet later recognizes Vittoria’s love and permits her a place in the children’s lives. Vittoria, who describes helping to raise them as a duty, remains a source of support as well as a force that can dominate the household. Their relationship is therefore neither reconciliation without remainder nor a permanent contest for Enzo’s loyalty. It is an ongoing arrangement built around shared grief and care, with the children and Giovanna witnessing how love can endure alongside injury, resentment, and dependence.