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Tessa

The Second Sex

Tessa, the girl in Margaret Kennedy’s The Constant Nymph, embodies a form of affection that does not require self-erasure. She is spontaneous, wild, and generous, able to yield to the moods of those she loves without becoming servile; even when she forgets herself in helping others, she remains autonomous. Her distinction lies not in conquering love but in giving it without mask, hostility, or pride.

Identity and Temperament

Tessa rejects the conventional equipment of feminine artifice: finery, makeup, disguises, hypocrisy, acquired charms, caution, and submission all repel her. She wants to be loved as herself, not as a carefully fashioned object. Though her nature has the lures of artifice, pleasing others never makes her degrade or diminish herself. The contrast is drawn with Florence, whose vanity and authoritarian manner coexist with a readiness to be conquered by kisses; Tessa, by contrast, cannot be subdued by caresses when she and Lewis quarrel.

Her independence does not make her emotionally distant. She seeks to understand and help the artists around her, whose lives are wholly committed to musical creation, but she does so through a tender, spontaneous generosity rather than a consuming urge to create on her own behalf. She can suffer the world’s harshness without being divided against herself. The portrait holds together the carefree child and the wise woman: Tessa’s receptiveness and ardor make her seem ready to become a great lover, without requiring her to abandon the self from which that love comes.

Love and Autonomy

Tessa yields to Lewis’s moods and vibrates in unison with him, yet her responsiveness is not submission. Their disagreements expose the limit of any assumption that tenderness means pliability: Lewis knows that caresses will not settle an argument by making her surrender. Her love can be yielding without being conquered, a balance that lets her remain free within attachment rather than choosing between intimacy and self-possession.

The contrast with Florence clarifies the stakes. Florence’s vanity and authority do not prevent her from being won over by kisses; Tessa’s affection, in contrast, cannot be reduced to the success of a romantic gesture. The account presents her as able to love without either hostility or pride. Her freedom is therefore not a refusal of connection, but a way of entering it without making herself an object controlled by another’s desire.

Sensibility and Artistic Perception

Tessa’s generosity belongs to a wider receptiveness to experience. The portrait links the girl’s relative lack of integration into the human world with a capacity to see it afresh: rather than attending only to what she can grasp, she notices what things mean, their particular profiles, and their unexpected transformations. When love is absent, poetry may take its place. She watches, feels, and records, responding deeply to a color or a smile.

She rarely feels a strong creative urge and often lacks the techniques needed to give her perceptions finished form. Yet her sensibility emerges in conversations, letters, literary essays, and rough drafts. The contrast is between perception and production: Tessa may not possess the drive or means to create as the surrounding musicians do, but she receives and interprets the world with an intensity of her own. Her relative lack of accomplishment is not treated simply as emptiness; because her transcendence has not yet been curtailed, it can intensify her desire to reach toward the whole.

Nature and the Other

The account also places Tessa within a broader pattern of girlhood: an attitude of expectation and tender docility can orient a girl toward the Other, even where her love is not egotistical and she retains an independent life, projects, and private world. That tension makes the ideal of unselfish love double-edged. A girl may give freely without losing herself, as Tessa does, yet still be described as shaped by a destiny dispersed beyond herself.

Nature offers another field for this expansive attention. Tessa’s relation to the world is connected to the adolescent girl’s worship of Nature: untamed and inhuman, it seems to contain the totality of what exists. Because she has not yet annexed any part of the universe, the universe can appear as her kingdom; taking possession of it can become a way of taking possession of herself. Tessa’s defining combination—receptivity without servility, giving without self-degradation—makes her a figure of affection and perception that remains, even in self-forgetfulness, her own.