The Conflict Between Wentworth and His Own Pride

Explores Wentworth's internal battle with his pride and resentment, which prevents him from seeking Anne sooner.

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The Wounded Pride

The Wounded Pride A Sense of Injury Wentworth felt ill-used by Anne's decision to break off the engagement. His pride was wounded. He resolved to show her that he could be happy without her. He spent years trying to forget her, but he never succeeded. The Persistence of Pride Even when he returns and sees Anne again, his pride prevents him from being open with her. He treats her with cold politeness, and he deliberately courts other women to prove his indifference. He is still angry, and he wants to punish her.

The Struggle Against Jealousy

The Struggle Against Jealousy Seeing Anne with Mr. Elliot In Bath, Wentworth is tormented by jealousy when he sees Mr. Elliot paying attention to Anne. He assumes that she may be interested in him. His pride makes him withdraw, but he cannot bear the thought of losing her. The Battle Within He is torn between his pride and his love. He wants to approach her, but his pride holds him back. He is unable to read her feelings, and he is afraid of rejection. The conflict within him is the main obstacle to their reconciliation.

The Surrender of Pride

The Surrender of Pride A Moment of Truth Overhearing Anne's conversation with Captain Harville, Wentworth realizes that her heart is still his. He abandons his pride and writes the letter. He risks everything, but he is no longer willing to let pride stand in the way of happiness. The Victory of Love The letter is a complete surrender of his pride. He admits his faults and declares his love. He is humble and vulnerable. The conflict within him is resolved, and he is free to love Anne openly.

1806-1814

February 1815

February 1815