The Bond Between Anne and Lady Russell

Traces the deep, complex friendship between Anne and her godmother, which is tested by differing opinions.

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A Mother's Love

A Mother's Love A Trusted Advisor Lady Russell has been a mother figure to Anne since Lady Elliot's death. She loves Anne deeply and wants the best for her. Anne trusts her implicitly and often seeks her advice. The First Test When Anne breaks off her engagement to Wentworth on Lady Russell's advice, their bond seems strong. However, Anne later comes to regret this decision, and it creates a subtle strain between them. Lady Russell remains unaware of Anne's changed feelings.

Diverging Paths

Diverging Paths Differences in Judgment Over the years, Anne begins to think differently from Lady Russell. She now believes that she was wrong to have been persuaded to give up Wentworth. She also distrusts Mr. Elliot, whom Lady Russell approves of. The once harmonious relationship now has points of disagreement. A Delicate Balance Anne still loves and respects Lady Russell, but she is no longer willing to be guided by her in everything. She keeps her own counsel. The friendship is strained, but it remains strong because of their mutual affection. Anne's independence is a sign of her growth.

Reconciliation

Reconciliation Lady Russell's Acceptance When Anne marries Captain Wentworth, Lady Russell is initially disappointed. However, she comes to see that Anne is happy and that Wentworth is a good man. She accepts the marriage and eventually grows fond of Wentworth. A New Understanding The friendship endures, now based on a more equal footing. Anne has proven her own judgment, and Lady Russell respects her choices. Their bond is strengthened by their shared history and their love for each other. The novel ends with Lady Russell as a cherished mother-in-law to Wentworth.

1806-1814

1814-1815

Spring 1815