Conflict Between Emma and Mr. Knightley Over Matchmaking
EmmaThe repeated clashes between Emma and Mr. Knightley about her interference in others' lives.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
Initial Disagreement

Initial Disagreement
Mr. Knightley's Objection
Mr. Knightley tells Mrs. Weston that he thinks Emma's intimacy with Harriet Smith is a bad thing. He believes it will harm both of them.
Emma's Rejection
Emma dismisses Mr. Knightley's opinion, confident in her own plan. She feels he is being overly critical.
The Martin Affair

The Martin Affair
A Direct Confrontation
Mr. Knightley expresses his anger when he learns that Emma persuaded Harriet to refuse Martin. He accuses her of being irresponsible.
Emma's Defense
Emma argues that Harriet deserves better than a farmer. Their exchange is heated and leaves both feeling frustrated.
The Elton Prediction

The Elton Prediction
Mr. Knightley's Warning
Mr. Knightley warns Emma that Mr. Elton will not marry Harriet, as he is ambitious and will seek a woman with fortune.
Emma's Disbelief
Emma laughs at the idea, insisting that Mr. Elton is in love with Harriet. She is proven wrong when Mr. Elton proposes to her.
Frank Churchill's Arrival

Frank Churchill's Arrival
A New Source of Conflict
Mr. Knightley distrusts Frank Churchill and warns Emma that he is not what he seems. Emma defends Frank.
Underlying Tension
Their disagreement over Frank reflects their different views on character. Mr. Knightley values sincerity, while Emma is charmed by appearances.
Resolution Through Understanding

Resolution Through Understanding
Mutual Acknowledgment
Emma admits that Mr. Knightley was right about Frank and about Harriet. She acknowledges his superior judgment.
A New Harmony
With their conflicts resolved, Emma and Mr. Knightley grow closer. Their love is built on mutual respect and honesty.
early in the story, when Emma takes up Harriet
when Harriet refuses Robert Martin
during the same argument
when Frank Churchill visits and Mr. Knightley is suspicious
after Frank's engagement is revealed and Emma's mistakes are clear