Emma and Harriet's Friendship

Emma

The evolving friendship between Emma and Harriet, from patronage to genuine affection, and eventual separation.

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A New CompanionA New Companion
A New Companion Emma's Interest Emma is drawn to Harriet's beauty and sweetness. She sees in Harriet a project and a companion to fill the void left by Mrs. Weston. Harriet's Gratitude Harriet is thrilled to be noticed by Miss Woodhouse. She is eager to please and becomes devoted to Emma.
Emma's GuidanceEmma's Guidance
Emma's Guidance Improving Harriet Emma teaches Harriet about manners and society. She discourages her from the Martins and encourages her interest in Mr. Elton. Harriet's Trust Harriet relies on Emma's judgment completely. She follows her advice, even when it leads to heartbreak.
The Consequences of MeddlingThe Consequences of Meddling
The Consequences of Meddling Harriet's Pain Harriet is devastated by Mr. Elton's marriage. Emma feels guilty but remains supportive. A Strained Friendship Harriet's trust in Emma is shaken, but she still values her friendship. They grow closer in some ways.
The Revelation of Harriet's FeelingsThe Revelation of Harriet's Feelings
The Revelation of Harriet's Feelings A Shocking Confession Harriet tells Emma she loves Mr. Knightley. Emma realizes she has created a rival. A Turning Point Emma's friendship with Harriet is tested. She must prioritize her own love and gently discourage Harriet.
A Natural SeparationA Natural Separation
A Natural Separation Harriet's New Life Harriet marries Robert Martin and moves into her own home. Her friendship with Emma becomes less intense. Emma's Relief Emma is happy for Harriet but also relieved. The friendship settles into a calmer, more distant relationship, as is natural.
early in the story, when Harriet first visits Hartfield
throughout the autumn
after Mr. Elton's rejection
when Harriet confesses her love for Mr. Knightley
when Harriet marries Robert Martin