Emma and Harriet's Friendship
EmmaThe evolving friendship between Emma and Harriet, from patronage to genuine affection, and eventual separation.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
A New Companion

A New Companion
Emma's Interest
Emma is drawn to Harriet's beauty and sweetness. She sees in Harriet a project and a companion to fill the void left by Mrs. Weston.
Harriet's Gratitude
Harriet is thrilled to be noticed by Miss Woodhouse. She is eager to please and becomes devoted to Emma.
Emma's Guidance

Emma's Guidance
Improving Harriet
Emma teaches Harriet about manners and society. She discourages her from the Martins and encourages her interest in Mr. Elton.
Harriet's Trust
Harriet relies on Emma's judgment completely. She follows her advice, even when it leads to heartbreak.
The Consequences of Meddling

The Consequences of Meddling
Harriet's Pain
Harriet is devastated by Mr. Elton's marriage. Emma feels guilty but remains supportive.
A Strained Friendship
Harriet's trust in Emma is shaken, but she still values her friendship. They grow closer in some ways.
The Revelation of Harriet's Feelings

The Revelation of Harriet's Feelings
A Shocking Confession
Harriet tells Emma she loves Mr. Knightley. Emma realizes she has created a rival.
A Turning Point
Emma's friendship with Harriet is tested. She must prioritize her own love and gently discourage Harriet.
A Natural Separation

A Natural Separation
Harriet's New Life
Harriet marries Robert Martin and moves into her own home. Her friendship with Emma becomes less intense.
Emma's Relief
Emma is happy for Harriet but also relieved. The friendship settles into a calmer, more distant relationship, as is natural.
early in the story, when Harriet first visits Hartfield
throughout the autumn
after Mr. Elton's rejection
when Harriet confesses her love for Mr. Knightley
when Harriet marries Robert Martin