Widowhood
SanctuaryWidowhood is presented not as a single emotional state but as a condition that reorganizes a woman’s household, sexuality, economic vulnerability, and place in the community. The novel contrasts the apparently respectable widow in Horace Benbow’s family with women whose dependence and exposure are treated as moral failures, showing that a widow’s social meaning is determined less by grief than by the protections and judgments available to her.
Family Respectability and the Pressure to Remarry
In the country outside Jefferson, Horace Benbow visits his widowed sister, who has lived for ten years with her ten-year-old son and Miss Jenny, the ninety-year-old great-aunt of her late husband. From the window, Benbow and Miss Jenny watch her walking in the garden with Gowan Stevens, a young man whose collegiate swagger makes him an uncertain candidate for the family’s approval. The household is stable enough to retain its inherited setting, but the widow’s unmarried status remains socially conspicuous: Benbow asks why she has never married again, and Miss Jenny answers that a young woman needs a man.
The exchange makes remarriage sound like a social necessity rather than a private choice. The widow is still a mother and household member, yet the older woman defines her security and completeness through male attachment. Benbow’s skepticism toward Gowan does not challenge that premise; it only questions whether this particular man is suitable. The same garden has already witnessed another possible courtship: the previous October, the widow walked there with Herschell Jones, while Gowan was still unknown to Horace. The repeated scene turns widowhood into a continuing public negotiation, in which successive men are observed, compared, and judged as possible replacements for the absent husband.
The Widow as a Contested Social Position
Miss Jenny extends the pressure beyond Benbow’s sister. She remarks that Gowan may eventually leave Belle, but that Narcissa Sartoris would not be satisfied even if he did. Her observation distinguishes two forms of female judgment: women may oppose a man’s marriage to a particular woman, yet they may also condemn him if he abandons her. Widowhood belongs to this wider system of female surveillance, where a woman’s value and protection depend upon whether a man remains attached to her and whether the community recognizes that attachment as legitimate.
The novel places this respectable widowhood beside the vulnerable domestic world encountered by Temple Drake. At the Old Frenchman place, Temple is compelled to confront a household in which a woman cooks for men every night and cares for a baby amid drunkenness and danger. Temple asks the woman to obtain transportation for her, appealing to the woman’s position as a wife and mother, but the request reveals how limited that position is: access to a husband, a car, and a safe exit depends on the goodwill of a household already controlled by men.
Widowhood, Violence, and Female Testimony
Temple’s encounter with the woman also invokes an earlier story of female dependence and violence. The woman recounts how her father shot Frank after Temple’s speaker had tried to place herself between them, then insulted her as a whore. The remembered scene links female sexuality, paternal authority, and lethal family discipline. A woman’s attempt to choose or defend a male companion does not free her from patriarchal control; it places her between competing men whose decisions determine whether she lives, leaves, or is punished.
The contrast between the widow in Benbow’s family and the women in the Old Frenchman place is therefore structural rather than merely moral. One widow is surrounded by kin, a large house, inherited social standing, and an accepted place within a family network. The other domestic setting offers female labor without corresponding authority or safety. The novel’s treatment of widowhood shows how class and household resources alter the meaning of female vulnerability: dependence may appear respectable when supported by family property, but desperate when exposed to itinerant men, alcohol, and violence.
Public Institutions and the Burden of Care
The condition of widowhood also appears through the legal and charitable spaces surrounding Lee Goodwin’s imprisonment. When Ruby Lamar brings the dead man’s circumstances to the sheriff by telephone, she identifies herself as Mrs Goodwin and gives the Old Frenchman place as the location of the body. Her status as Goodwin’s wife becomes part of the official record at the moment when domestic violence and criminal accusation enter public institutions.
In jail, Goodwin asks Horace Benbow not to vindicate him but to secure a future for the child. He requests a newspaper job for the boy when he is old enough to make change and assures Ruby that she will be all right, touching her head while she holds their weak, nearly immobile child. The request shows widowhood as an impending condition, not simply an established one: Ruby’s future depends on the fate of the imprisoned man, while the child’s future is imagined through work and male legal advocacy. Horace then takes Ruby to his house, carrying milk and groceries while she carries the sleeping child. His assistance is concrete, but it also confirms that Ruby’s survival has become dependent on another man’s intervention.
The surrounding jail scene intensifies this dependence through contrast. Across from the jail, a Black murderer sings spirituals to listeners gathered along the fence, while white townspeople pause to hear a voice joined to both death and confinement. Ruby’s predicament is thus placed within a broader public spectacle of crime, punishment, race, and suffering. The community can witness imprisoned men and endangered women, but witnessing does not itself provide protection.
Repetition, Exposure, and Meaning
The novel repeatedly makes women’s bodies and movements visible to others. Temple’s clandestine escapes from the women’s dormitory place her within a social world of college rules, town cars, dances, and male spectatorship. Her movements are watched from windows and judged through the competing codes of collegiate superiority, town-boy possession, and feminine respectability. Widowhood offers no escape from this gaze; it changes the terms under which a woman is watched, from desirable young woman to abandoned wife, dependent mother, or socially suspect survivor.
This pattern culminates in the courtroom, where Temple appears blank and rigid while an older man guides her from the witness stand. She stops repeatedly, cringing backward and shrinking against the wall as younger men surround her. The scene does not present testimony as uncomplicated liberation. Her body registers a condition she cannot fully control, while male legal and familial structures physically escort, shield, and contain her. Beside the prisoner, Ruby, and the child, Horace occupies the counsel table as advocate, but the women and child remain the figures through whom the consequences of violence are embodied.
Widowhood therefore functions as a measure of the novel’s social order. It reveals the difference between being housed and being secure, between being publicly respectable and being protected, and between receiving male assistance and possessing independent authority. Through the widow in Benbow’s family, Ruby Lamar’s threatened future, and the women whose histories surface around Temple, the novel presents widowhood as a state shaped by absence but maintained by living institutions: family expectation, sexual judgment, property, law, labor, and the uneven availability of male protection.