Theo and Mrs. Barbour's Unlikely Bond
The GoldfinchThe growing affection between Theo and Samantha Barbour, especially after Andy's death.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
Theo Taken In

A Cold Welcome
Mrs. Barbour's Reserve
Mrs. Barbour is formal but kind. She provides for Theo but keeps her distance.
Gratitude
Theo is grateful for her help. He tries to be a good guest.
Respect
He admires her composure. She becomes a figure of stability.
Reconnecting After Andy's Death

Shared Grief
Visiting
Theo visits Mrs. Barbour after learning about Andy. She is frail and lonely.
Comfort
They talk about Andy. Mrs. Barbour says Theo was always like a son to her.
New Closeness
They develop a warm relationship. Theo becomes a regular visitor.
Engagement to Kitsey

Making Her Happy
The Proposal
Theo and Kitsey get engaged. Mrs. Barbour is overjoyed.
Her Approval
She tells Theo he is part of the family. He feels accepted.
Complication
When the engagement falls apart, Mrs. Barbour is sad but understanding.
After mother's death
Years later
Summer