Theo and Mrs. Barbour's Unlikely Bond

The Goldfinch

The growing affection between Theo and Samantha Barbour, especially after Andy's death.

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Theo Taken InTheo Taken In from "The Goldfinch". A Cold Welcome Mrs. Barbour's Reserve Mrs. Barbour is formal but kind. She provides for Theo but keeps her distance. Gratitude Theo is grateful for her help.
A Cold Welcome Mrs. Barbour's Reserve Mrs. Barbour is formal but kind. She provides for Theo but keeps her distance. Gratitude Theo is grateful for her help. He tries to be a good guest. Respect He admires her composure. She becomes a figure of stability.
Reconnecting After Andy's DeathReconnecting After Andy's Death from "The Goldfinch". Shared Grief Visiting Theo visits Mrs. Barbour after learning about Andy. She is frail and lonely. Comfort They talk about Andy. Mrs.
Shared Grief Visiting Theo visits Mrs. Barbour after learning about Andy. She is frail and lonely. Comfort They talk about Andy. Mrs. Barbour says Theo was always like a son to her. New Closeness They develop a warm relationship. Theo becomes a regular visitor.
Engagement to KitseyEngagement to Kitsey from "The Goldfinch". Making Her Happy The Proposal Theo and Kitsey get engaged. Mrs. Barbour is overjoyed. Her Approval She tells Theo he is part of the family. He feels accepted.
Making Her Happy The Proposal Theo and Kitsey get engaged. Mrs. Barbour is overjoyed. Her Approval She tells Theo he is part of the family. He feels accepted. Complication When the engagement falls apart, Mrs. Barbour is sad but understanding.
After mother's death
Years later
Summer