Grief and Loss
The GoldfinchHow different characters cope with the death of loved ones.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
Theo's Grief for His Mother

A Child's Mourning
Initial Shock
Theo is numb. He doesn't cry at the funeral.
Nightmares
He dreams of her constantly. He feels her absence everywhere.
Long-Term Impact
Her death shapes his entire life. He never fully recovers.
Mrs. Barbour's Grief

A Widow's Solitude
Withdrawal
Mrs. Barbour stops going out. She spends her days in her room.
Dogs
She finds comfort in her Yorkshire terriers. They are her only companions.
Theo's Visits
Theo's visits bring her some joy. She clings to him as a link to Andy.
Boris's Grief for His Mother

A Lost Mother
Alcoholic Mother
Boris's mother died when he was young. He rarely speaks of her.
Coping
He numbs his pain with alcohol and drugs. He becomes reckless.
Acceptance
Boris accepts his loss. He tries to be a better parent to his own children.
After the bombing
After husband and son die
Throughout his childhood