Rebekah
TorahRebekah, daughter of Bethuel and sister of Laban, becomes Isaac’s wife after Abraham sends his senior servant to find a bride among his own kin. Her generous response at the well leads to her marriage, and after years of barrenness she gives birth to Esau and Jacob, twins whose struggle before birth anticipates the conflict that will shape their family.
Family and Marriage
Rebekah is introduced through her lineage: she is Bethuel’s daughter, Milcah’s granddaughter, and the sister of Laban. Abraham’s servant seeks a wife for Isaac among Abraham’s relatives, explicitly forbidding that Isaac be taken back to the country from which Abraham had come. At the well, the servant asks God to identify the chosen woman through a specific act of hospitality: she is to give him water and offer to water his camels as well.
Rebekah fulfills the sign before the servant has finished speaking. She gives him water, then repeatedly draws water for all ten camels. After learning her family identity, the servant gives her a golden ring and two bracelets, and later recounts the journey and his prayer to her household. Laban and Bethuel accept that the matter proceeds from God; when Rebekah is asked whether she will go, she agrees. Her family sends her away with a blessing that she become the mother of many thousands and that her descendants possess the gate of their enemies.
Rebekah travels by camel with her attendants to meet Isaac, who has come from Beer-lahai-roi and is in the field at evening. She asks the servant who he is, veils herself when she learns that he is Isaac, and is brought by Isaac into Sarah’s tent. Isaac takes her as his wife and loves her; the marriage comforts him after his mother’s death.
Motherhood and the Twins
At forty, Isaac marries Rebekah, who is barren. Isaac entreats God on her behalf, and she conceives. The children struggle within her, and her distress leads her to inquire of God. The answer interprets the pregnancy as the beginning of a division between two peoples: two nations are in her womb, and the elder will serve the younger.
Rebekah bears twins when Isaac is sixty. Esau emerges first, ruddy and hairy; Jacob follows, holding his brother’s heel. The boys develop contrasting ways of life: Esau becomes a skilled hunter who lives in the field, while Jacob is quiet and dwells in tents. The text also establishes a divided parental attachment: Isaac loves Esau for the venison he eats, while Rebekah loves Jacob.
The Household’s Inheritance and Legacy
The brothers’ rivalry takes concrete form when Esau returns from the field faint and asks Jacob for the red lentil stew. Jacob demands Esau’s birthright in exchange; Esau swears to the bargain, eats bread and stew, and goes away, treating the birthright with contempt. The episode places the future inheritance in a household already marked by parental preference and by the prediction that the elder will serve the younger.
Rebekah’s place in the family is also part of a wider pattern of kinship and succession. Her marriage joins Abraham’s household to the family of Nahor, and her sons become the ancestors of two peoples. The narrative establishes her affection for Jacob but, in the supplied episodes, does not show her arranging the later transfer of Isaac’s blessing; her role here is defined by her marriage, her answered prayer for children, and the household division that begins with the twins.