Marilla's Conflict with Her Own Strictness

Marilla's internal struggle between her rigid principles and her growing love for Anne.

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Initial Harshness

A Stern Uphringing Strict Rules Marilla imposes strict discipline, forbidding Anne's chatter and imagination. She believes in 'spare the rod.' Conflict with Matthew Marilla disagrees with Matthew's leniency. She insists on being the one to raise Anne. Doubts Marilla sometimes wonders if she is too harsh, but she suppresses these thoughts.

Softening Moments

Unintentional Warmth Small Indulgences Marilla allows Anne to go to the picnic, have Diana over for tea, and wear a pretty dress. She hides her affection. Pride in Anne Marilla feels proud when Anne succeeds, but she rarely shows it. She criticizes to avoid spoiling Anne. Realization of Love When Anne breaks her ankle, Marilla realizes how much she loves her. She admits it to herself.

Full Acceptance

A Mother's Love Expressing Love Marilla tells Anne she loves her as her own flesh and blood. She breaks her reserve. Dependence Marilla relies on Anne for support. She accepts Anne's decision to stay, grateful for her sacrifice. Mellowing Marilla becomes softer and more open. Her conflict with her own strictness is resolved.

First weeks

Over the years

After Matthew's death