Marilla's Softening Heart

Anne of Green Gables

Marilla Cuthbert's gradual transformation from a stern, unemotional woman to a loving, maternal figure.

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Initial ReluctanceInitial Reluctance
A Stern Beginning Disapproval of Anne Marilla is initially cold and critical, seeing Anne as too talkative and imaginative. She plans to send her back. Sense of Duty Despite her reluctance, Marilla feels responsible for Anne. She decides to keep her, partly due to Matthew's wishes. Strict Upbringing Marilla imposes strict rules and tries to curb Anne's imagination. She believes in discipline and hard work.
Growing AffectionGrowing Affection
Unacknowledged Love Small Acts of Kindness Marilla begins to show subtle care, such as making Anne a new dress and allowing her to attend the picnic. Pride in Anne's Achievements Marilla feels proud when Anne does well in school, though she rarely expresses it openly. Emotional Moments When Anne breaks her ankle, Marilla realizes how much she loves her. She admits to herself that Anne is dear to her.
Full Maternal LoveFull Maternal Love
A Mother's Heart Grief Shared Marilla and Anne grieve together for Matthew. Marilla admits she loves Anne as her own flesh and blood. Dependence on Anne When Marilla's eyesight fails, she relies on Anne. Anne's decision to stay fills Marilla with gratitude and love. Mellowing Marilla becomes softer and more expressive. Mrs. Lynde notes that Marilla has 'got mellow.'
First days of Anne's arrival
Over the first year
After Matthew's death