The Symbolism of the Chinese Tea Set

A Thousand Splendid Suns

Traces the heirloom that Nana received from her mother, a symbol of family and loss.

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The Breaking of the Sugar BowlThe Breaking of the Sugar Bowl from "A Thousand Splendid Suns". A Child's Accident The Heirloom Nana's Chinese tea set is the only relic of her own mother. She cherishes it.
A Child's Accident The Heirloom Nana's Chinese tea set is the only relic of her own mother. She cherishes it. The sugar bowl has a dragon meant to ward off evil. The Accident Mariam drops the sugar bowl and it shatters. Nana calls her a clumsy little harami. The word is spoken for the first time. The Wound Mariam does not understand the word, but she feels the sting. The broken bowl is a symbol of her broken family.
The Tea Set's FateThe Tea Set's Fate from "A Thousand Splendid Suns". Lost Again Left Behind When Mariam is taken to Jalil's house, she does not take the tea set. It remains in the kolba.
Lost Again Left Behind When Mariam is taken to Jalil's house, she does not take the tea set. It remains in the kolba. The fragments of the sugar bowl are still there. A Memory of Nana Mariam never sees the tea set again. It is a reminder of her mother's bitterness and her own shame. The Unbroken Pieces In Laila's visit to the kolba, there is no sign of the tea set. It has been lost or destroyed. The only legacy is the memory of Nana's words.
1959, when Mariam is five
1974, after Nana's death