
early in the story, when Mariam is five years old
Mariam hears the word harami
Mariam, at five years old, accidentally breaks her mother Nana's cherished Chinese tea set. Nana, in a fit of rage, calls Mariam a harami, a word meaning bastard. This moment marks Mariam's first encounter with the stigma of her illegitimate birth, a label that will define her social standing and self-perception for years to come. The incident establishes the fraught relationship between mother and daughter and introduces the central theme of shame and illegitimacy.