Merry and Théoden's Bond
The Lord of the RingsThe deep friendship between Meriadoc and King Théoden of Rohan, formed in the short time they knew each other.
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Bearing strength in each event
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The Meeting

The Meeting
The Offer of Service
Merry offers his sword to Théoden, and the king accepts him as an esquire. Théoden treats him with kindness.
The Ride Together
They ride to Helm's Deep and later to Dunharrow. Merry sits at the king's table and learns from him.
The Growing Affection
Théoden calls Merry 'Master Holbytla' and shows him fatherly affection. Merry is deeply loyal.
The Battle of the Pelennor

The Battle of the Pelennor
The Disobedience
Merry disobeys orders and rides with Dernhelm (Éowyn) to the battle. He is determined to be at Théoden's side.
The Death of Théoden
Théoden is killed by the Witch-king. Merry is devastated but helps Éowyn kill the Witch-king.
The Final Farewell
Before dying, Théoden speaks to Merry, forgiving him and thanking him for his service. Merry weeps.
The Memory

The Memory
The Grief
Merry never forgets Théoden. He smokes his pipe but thinks of the king.
The Horn of the Mark
Éowyn gives Merry the horn of the Mark as a gift. He keeps it as a memento of Théoden.
The Legacy
Merry becomes a hero of the Shire, but his bond with Théoden shapes his character. He is known as 'Holdwine' in Rohan.
March 6, T.A. 3019, at Edoras
March 15, T.A. 3019
After the War